Written from the viewpoint of teaching and schools education, the tenet of this post has relevance for all occupations and professions.

One of the most vital attributes of the teaching and any profession is that of ‘fraternity’. Collegiality and sharing are elements of that togetherness. Unlike some occupations where people feel they have to sit on problems or challenges and muddle through, teaching invites those with questions to seek assistance. This does not mean teachers should not have a go but instead encourages them to seek support to help reach satisfactory outcomes.

This might include asking for clarification when a theory or teaching practice is not fully understood. It could be that teachers are struggling with classroom management, discipline policies need explaining, and many issues may press the teacher’s mind. They will remain unless help is sought or given.

Teachers are often credited with having a sixth sense. Part of this is having the intuition to understand matters others might find confusing and offering advice or support. Gumption needs to be a characteristic that allows teachers having difficulties, to ask for help if required.

It is not a sign of weakness or inability to ask for support in understanding matters that are not fully comprehended. If there is a need ‘sensed’ in others, ask if they would like assistance. Two-way caring and sharing should be informal, a part of the relationships between staff members.

Mentors are sometimes assigned to staff members new to a school. Building a two-way professional relationship with a mentor or coach is wise. Beginning teachers can contribute to these relationships, for they often have a better understanding of new methodologies than those who have been in schools for some years. Therefore meaningful two-way relationships can be established.

Keeping in touch with each other in a collegiate context is essential to the professional growth of teachers and school staff members. If problems are not shared, and help is not sought, worry, hopelessness and despair can set in and infect the soul. It is indeed sad if this happens … and it need not!

Caring and sharing are attributes to be cherished and practised.