
So Awful

Agistment opportunity – applications welcome

Make an offer.
PLAY THE BALL …!
What are you passionate about?
Focus on issues.
The message not the messenger.
Avoid demeaning emails.
Cope with stupidity and aggravation by thinking ‘alter ego’.
Play devil’s advocate and enjoy the scorn people pour upon you in response.
Love words.
Learn to laugh at yourself.
Try to avoid being submerged in the bog of despair – often easier said than done.
Think and reflect.
Flight Controller – Not Necessary


POOR OLD HENRY CELEBRATES ST PATS DAY WITH A TYPICAL IRISH MEAL

NORTHERN TERRITORY MEMORY CLINIC FACES FUNDING CRISIS
The Northern Territory Memory Clinic, a vital part of the program offered in support of people living with dementia and carers in the NT, is in dire straits. The memory clinic is presently supported by a .5 part-time doctor – with the other half of the position supporting the geriatric program at Palmerston Regional Hospital.
Three specialist nurses support the memory clinic. One full-time NT-funded position will remain unchanged. The Commonwealth currently funds two positions through the Commonwealth Home Support Program (CHSP), and this funding is being cut from July 1.
Staff curtailment will mean that memory clinic support services to the Katherine and Nhulunbuy areas will cease, along with visits to people under the care-at-home program in Darwin and Palmerston.
The Memory Clinic centre and staff support an ever-growing number of clients. Services need to be expanded, not curtailed
Thoughts from the Shadows – 13
- Dementia is incurable because the brainbox is a sealed unit.
- Canning currency reduces money from concrete to concept.
- Australian politics are a kaleidoscope of confusion.
- Care packages are gravy trains for unscrupulous providers.
- Dementia diminishes life’s sparkle and grows lethargy.
Last Hurrah
I am in a canoe,
Lying flatly, comfortably on my back,
Looking up at the sky,
With its blueness,
Fleecy clouds wafting across its face.
Drifting,
Toward the twilight zone of the day,
Slowly,
Ever so slowly the sun kisses then eases past the western horizon.
Twilight,
Envelopes the sky and surrounds fading into grey surreality.
Stars,
Twinkle and stare from overhead as the canoe drifts further into the ocean of blackness.
Found,
In the early morning by a lone fisherman,
The canoe?
Empty.
AI and a question of location
Can I live on Easter Island
Living on Easter Island, known as Rapa Nui, is certainly possible, but it comes with unique challenges and considerations:
Considerations for Living on Easter Island
- Location:
- Easter Island is one of the most remote inhabited islands in the world, located in the southeastern Pacific Ocean.
- Population:
- The island has a small population, around 7,000 residents, primarily concentrated in the main town, Hanga Roa.
- Cost of Living:
- The cost of living can be relatively high due to its isolation. Many goods are imported, leading to higher prices.
- Employment:
- Job opportunities are limited, mainly in tourism, fishing, and local services. It may be challenging to find work unless you have specialized skills or are involved in tourism.
- Housing:
- Housing options are available, but they can be limited and may be expensive compared to mainland Chile.
- Culture:
- Rapa Nui has a rich cultural heritage. Participating in local customs and understanding the culture is essential for integrating into the community.
- Access and Transportation:
- The island is accessible mainly by air from mainland Chile, with limited flights. There are no major roads or public transportation systems.
- Healthcare:
- There are basic healthcare facilities, but for serious medical issues, evacuation to the mainland may be necessary.
- Utilities and Resources:
- Utilities may be limited compared to urban areas. Water and electricity can sometimes be an issue, depending on the season.
- Environment:
- The island’s environment is fragile, and residents are encouraged to follow sustainable practices.
Conclusion
If you’re considering moving to Easter Island, it’s essential to plan carefully, research the local lifestyle, and consider the logistical aspects of living in such a remote location.
A question to ask AI
Do ladies or girls with the name ‘Hettie’ have a greater propensity for tears than others?
The propensity for tears or emotional expression in individuals is influenced more by personality traits, upbringing, and individual circumstances rather than their name.
Considerations:
- Cultural Influence: Names can sometimes carry cultural or familial significance, which may influence a person’s identity and behavior, but this varies widely among individuals.
- Individual Differences: Emotional expression, including the likelihood of crying, can differ greatly regardless of name. Factors such as temperament, life experiences, and social environments play a significant role.
- Stereotypes and Generalizations: There may be stereotypes associated with certain names, but attributing emotional characteristics to names can lead to overgeneralization and may not accurately reflect individual traits.
Conclusion:
There is no scientific evidence or research to suggest that individuals named “Hettie” have a greater propensity for tears than anyone else. Emotional responses are complex and vary widely from person to person.
On the balcony and on the dance floor

Poor Old Henry – health and well-being for a very old man
I don’t overly think on these things and stories a lot more when younger. I am not foolhardy but take chances things will generally be okay.
If I needed hospitalisation that would be impossible because I am carer for my wife who has dementia. If I had to go to hospital there would be no one to care for her.
I do not smoke or drink alcohol but am no fitness freak I try to keep my weight down But my body looks yuk and in my old age I am but a caricature of my former physical self .
I survive
Poor Old Henry and coping with negative feelings
I do not cope well and in my life with increasing challenges as a carer for my loved one.
Headache pills
Sleeping tablets
Strong wake-up coffee each morning
Trying to keep steady with the exhaustion I have in maintaining our place and caring properly for my wife
Antidepressants for the waves of depression that constantly consume me.
Enduring countless dreams of all sorts that impact me each night.
I do not cope well – it’s an existence
Share and share alike


Bird feeding

Thoughts from the Shadows – 13
- The frustrations of living are often overwhelmingly hurtful.
- In ONE hour I will become an octogenarian. 80 – it is scary.
- Governments love debt and often waste our money on garbage.
- The warp and weft of the Australian fabric is being shredded.
- Australia’s defence shield is as secure as tissue paper.
- .
- .
Rain Pending?

The answer was ‘yes’ at 5.15 pm Sunday March 15 2026
Cakes for sake at the Peninsular Bakery and Cafe Nhulunbuy (Gove) Northern Territory




School Children at Warburton Ranges in 1974


From Neil McCormack
Alzheimer Awareness Week is coming
Someone once said if you take care of someone with dementia you lose them more and more everyday. When they get the diagnosis, when they go through different stages, when they need treatment and when they pass away. This is called “ambiguous loss”.
As the brain slowly dies, they change physically and eventually forget who their loved ones are. They could end up lying in bed, not moving and not eating or drinking.
There will be people who will scroll past this post because Dementia has not touched them. They may not know what it’s like to have a loved one who has battled or is still battling dementia.
To raise awareness of this cruel disease, I would like my friends to put this on their page today. Hold your finger on the post to copy and paste to your timeline.
A special thank you to anyone willing to put this on their timeline for Alzheimer Awareness Week!
💜🙏
Poor Old Henry and modern world changes.
What I would like to change and consign to the dustbin of history
Wokeism
Extreme leftism
Extreme rightism
Pandering to minorities
Devaluing and undermining the traditional institutions including Christmas, Easter, Anzac Day and Australia Day.
AI’s awful impact on cognitive education.
March 14,2026 The Daly River Community is under water




I had travelled 203 kilometres since my last refill, so I topped up tonight.


At least we can get fuel in Darwin
Growing like Topsy
A Middle East turning into a massive Rubbleland.
Disappearing
Patches of joy, peace and tranquility left in the world.
The view up Buffalo Creek this afternoon

View across Buffalo Creek from the boat launching ramp this afternoon

Buffalo Creek this afternoon

Poor Old Henry gets lost in thought.
Thinking
Reflecting
Revisiting past personal, family, community and wider history.
Remembering key learnings and the impact they had on my personal, family and professional life.
Pondering my past studies, readings, community contributions, the value of my mission statement and the focus of my priorities.
Thanking my Father for the wisdom of his advice and his impact upon the shaping of my foundations and underpinning values of emergence from youth into manhood.
All in all, without overlooking the present, I get lost in the repository of my mind
The Leanyer Newsagent’s Joke Board this week

Sprucing up my old pink hat

Northern Territory School Principal many years ago

Tomorrow’s news today
What is wrong with Australia – 1
SELLING OUR INHERITANCE – BLESSING DESTROYED
At the government and private levels, Australia is so wrong to be in the game of selling off assets and companies into overseas control. We used to be a country identified as ‘Australia’ regarding asset ownership and management. No longer.
Increasingly, we have sold off segments of our birthright for cash advantage. Sadly, that cash is soon wasted, generally squandered on some ‘quick fix’ and wholly unsustainable project. We keep selling, and we keep wasting.
Increasingly, we Australians are tenants in a country owned and controlled by overseas principals. We have allowed ourselves to become bankrupt yet continue to sell off whatever bits of the farm remain.
An Apple

A lovely simple meal

The ‘next’ milestone reached

who inspire this old man
Our Gate

BATH TIME FOR HENRY V111 AND ELIZABETH 1
Poor Old Henry asked AI
What was added to the water when King Henry VIII and Queen Elizabeth ! were taking a bath? Were the baths for a long or short period of time?
Response:
In the time of King Henry VIII and Queen Elizabeth I, bathing practices were quite different from today. The water in their baths was typically heated and might be infused with various substances such as:
- Herbs and Essential Oils: Lavender, rosemary, and other aromatic herbs were often added for fragrance and potential medicinal properties.
- Milk: Sometimes, milk was added to baths for its believed skin-softening qualities.
- Honey or Oils: These were also occasionally added for moisturizing effects.
Regarding the duration of the baths, both monarchs typically bathed infrequently by modern standards. Bathing was not a daily ritual; it was more common to bathe once every few weeks or even longer. When they did bathe, the water was usually changed after use due to hygiene concerns, as allowing multiple people to use the same bathwater was common. The actual time spent in the bath would vary, but it would generally be for a shorter duration compared to today’s standards of relaxation and self-care.
Way to go
Poor Old Henry and goal planning.
I planned carefully each and every day as a school leader. Now that is no more. Planning is less forcastive and more spur of the moment.
And I sometimes feel guilty of being too lackadaisical
POH NAME FROM WHERE?
Poor Old Henry has just evolved over the last 30 years – from when I was 50.
Then it was figurative.
Now it is literal.
Greatest gift for Poor Old Henry
The love of family.
The last learning for Poor Old Henry
Dementia is an infliction with devilish impact
Little ($1,000,000+) Boxes


Contrastive Leaders

Iran
Is the 14 largest country in the world.
Has a population of 93 million.
Gas only had three Supreme Leaders in nearly five decades.
Therefore it could be assumed that the country is stable, prosperous and the leadership admired and appreciated by the vast majority.
Assumptions
Can be so wrong.
Our growing Mango tree

Higher and Higher go fuel prices



A change in economic perspectives

What is wrong with Australia
WE ARE BLESSED
We are blessed to live in Australia, but I suspect we are somewhat extravagant about our birthright. Over the following few entries, I thought to outline what we might do differently and better. This does not come from an expert, but rather from an aging Australian-born and raised citizen whose next ‘major’ birthday centenary will take me to the threescore and ten—getting closer by the year.
Older adults see things differently, possibly more reflectively than the young. We have experienced what is yet to unfold for them, albeit in a different world. The constant is that we all have youth and then grow older.
I worry about this country and will share some thoughts about it.
I am revisiting and extending my observations in 2026. Having just turned 80 gives me licence to revisit these issues.
Tomorrow’s news today

Without whose contribution would the world have missed out on the contribution of the world’s greatest leader?
Donald Trump’s Mother
Feeders take flight



Grain trail for big birds and small birds



Daly River community flooded again



As a child I missed out
How I wish as a child that I could have had a poster of Anthony Albanese to put on my wall
No such feelings of forlornness for today.’s children.
And the outlook one day later


Our recent daily outlook

The aftermath Cleaning up after the flood in Katherine





Daly community cops the river again


Palumpa NT drowns with residents moved to Darwin



Floods impacting Katherine NT





Flood affected areas in the NT

NT Football – Preliminary Finals played in mud






I hope players do not get melliodosis
Shopping Spree
No dice
I would not go for a shopping spree
Any time
Any where
Any place.
QED
Forwards and backwards contemplation

This is a common across the road from our house. It is peaceful and green a feeding place for magpie geese.
I contemplated about how it might look a few minutes after an aggressive act of war unleashed on Darwin at some future time.
And was this a boeme that felt Japanese bombs during World War Two?
Today
I am overwhelmed by depression
I feel life closing in on me
I feel sick in the body , bloated in my body. Drowning in spirit and beside my mind.
I feel lonely
In need of debate and c on variation
But an stuck in the stupor of stationary posture
And about as vibrant and alive as a pillar of salt
How to break out if this inertia I do not know
In a word
Buggered
Tomorrow’s news today

SIR KIER
Sir Kier,
Sir Kier,
You speak so well,
At the podium it seemed,
With pride you did swell,
As you pronounced your abstention
From involving as well
In the Iran schnozzle
Now on the boil
Sure to impact
With huge human toll.
Good old Sir Kier
Said to the crowd
In educated tones
Both cultured and loud
That the UK stood clear
Of taking sides in the war
The Iranian born audience
With approval did roar.
Fantastic Sir Kier
Has dispatched for good
Traditional Anglo culture
For which the UK once stood.
In its new age of confusion
Past leaders would quail
“We left you the gift of our country
But you flounder and fail.”
My brain
Is my gearbox
And it feels itself
To be in need
Of a grease and oil change.
Every so often
The sump of an engine
Needs to be drained
And topped up
With fresh oil.
They say brain drain
Is when good brains
In the heads of smart people
Leave the country
For overseas destinations.
To me brain drain
Is the need for overhaul.
My gears in the brain box
Don’t seem to mesh
With past precision
And things are grating on my mind
Like never before.
Cockatoos on a feeding line





Poor Old Henry shares news of an OUTSTANDING floor cleaning alternative





Middle name of Poor Old Henry
Maitland
Henry Maitland Gray
After an uncle.
March 8 2026 and Katherine, 310 kilometres south of Darwin is flooding.






Thoughts from the Shadows – 13
- The frustrations of living are often overwhelmingly hurtful.
- In ONE hour I will become an octogenarian. 80 – it is scary.
- Governments love debt and often waste our money on garbage.
- The warp and weft of the Australian fabric is being shredded.
- Australia’s defence shield is as secure as tissue paper.
Soup Sop

A yum yum tea.
Petrol hits $2 a litre in Darwin


Could Coles display more warnings about the wickedness and the limitations of imbibing alcohol?




People buying up big and frenetically on fuel due to pricing


Cutting sausages into slices and preparing them for freezing





Add lettuce and cranberry sauce for a scrumptious sandwich
A trigger happy weekend is looming

Biggest Influences for POH – The Scary Ones
Self doubt
Fear of heights
Fear of cliff faces
Fear of cascading tears
Fear of low flying aircraft
Fear of fire
Fear of cyclones
Fear of earthquakes
Fear of war
Fear of leftist ideology
Fear to think about camaraderie
Fear of false accusations
Fear of the reality of dreams being experienced
Fear of car crashes
Fear of molestation in shopping centres
Fear of courts condoning crime through light sentencing
Fear of positions being filled by other than the merit principle of selection
Fear of not being understood by recently arrived telephonists from non-English speaking countries
Fear of death duties
Fear of debt
Fear of selfish politicians
Fear of dementia’s evolution
The list goes on and on and on …..
A Relief for POH
Do ladies or girls with the name ‘Hettie’ have a greater propensity for tears than others?
The propensity for tears or emotional expression in individuals is influenced more by personality traits, upbringing, and individual circumstances rather than their name.
Considerations:
- Cultural Influence: Names can sometimes carry cultural or familial significance, which may influence a person’s identity and behavior, but this varies widely among individuals.
- Individual Differences: Emotional expression, including the likelihood of crying, can differ greatly regardless of name. Factors such as temperament, life experiences, and social environments play a significant role.
- Stereotypes and Generalizations: There may be stereotypes associated with certain names, but attributing emotional characteristics to names can lead to overgeneralization and may not accurately reflect individual traits.
Conclusion:
There is no scientific evidence or research to suggest that individuals named “Hettie” have a greater propensity for tears than anyone else. Emotional responses are complex and vary widely from person to person.
Great to know
Henry asks AI about the hottest for longest
Which is the hottest place on earth for the longest time of the year?
The hottest place on Earth for the longest duration is typically considered to be Dallol, located in the Afar Triangle of northeastern Ethiopia.
Key Facts about Dallol:
- Average Annual Temperature: Dallol has an average annual temperature of around 34.4°C (94°F).
- Extreme Temperatures: The area has recorded temperatures exceeding 50°C (122°F).
- Geothermal Activity: Dallol is known for its volcanic activity, including hot springs and sulfur fields, contributing to its extreme heat.
Other Notable Mentions:
- Death Valley, California, USA: Known for its dramatic heat, especially in the summer months, with temperatures often exceeding 50°C.
- Lut Desert, Iran: This region has recorded some of the highest surface temperatures on Earth, with satellite measurements showing 70.7°C (159.3°F).
Dallol stands out due to its consistently high temperatures throughout the year, making it unique in terms of the duration of extreme heat.
Henry asks AI about the coldest for longest
Which place on earth has the coldest temperatures for the longest periods of time?
The place on Earth with the coldest temperatures for the longest periods is typically considered to be Antarctica, specifically at a high point on the East Antarctic Plateau.
Key Facts about the Coldest Place:
- Location: The area known as the Dome Argus on the East Antarctic Ice Sheet.
- Extreme Temperatures: Satellite measurements have recorded temperatures as low as −128.6°F (−89.2°C) at Vostok Station on July 21, 1983, which is the lowest natural temperature ever recorded on Earth.
- Coldest Months: The winter months (May to August) see the most extreme cold, with temperatures often remaining well below freezing for extended periods.
- Long Duration of Cold: Due to the high elevation and the polar climate, parts of Antarctica can experience continuous cold for most of the year, especially during the long polar nights.
Other Notable Cold Places:
- Oymyakon, Russia: Known as one of the coldest inhabited places on Earth, with temperatures dropping below −50°C (−58°F).
- Yakutsk, Russia: Often cited for extreme winter temperatures but not as cold as the highest points in Antarctica.
Antarctica remains the most extreme in terms of sustained cold temperatures over long periods.
Henry asks AI a third question
Since the year 1 ad, had there ever been total worldwide peace for at least the period of a week?
The concept of total worldwide peace is complex, especially since the year 1 AD. Throughout history, there have been numerous conflicts, wars, and societal upheavals across various regions of the world.
While there may have been brief periods of relative peace in localized areas, it’s highly unlikely that there has ever been a week where the entire globe was free of conflict, given the continuous nature of human disputes and differing interests among nations, tribes, and groups.
Historically significant periods, such as the Pax Romana (27 BC to 180 AD) or the Pax Britannica (1815 to 1914), involved relative peace within certain empires or regions but did not eliminate conflict elsewhere in the world. Thus, finding a time frame of total worldwide peace, even for a week, appears improbable based on historical records.
The Tower of Babel fixed things for good!
Henry asked AI another
Which is the most important invention and advancement in the field of communications and why?
The most important invention in the field of communications is arguably the Internet. Here’s why:
1. Global Connectivity
- The Internet enables instantaneous communication across the globe, transcending geographical barriers. This interconnectedness allows people from different countries to interact, share ideas, and collaborate like never before.
2. Information Access
- It serves as a vast repository of information, making knowledge accessible to anyone with an Internet connection. This democratization of information has transformed education and learning.
3. Real-time Communication
- Technologies such as email, instant messaging, and video conferencing have revolutionized how we communicate. They allow for real-time interaction, facilitating both personal and professional communication.
4. Social Media Platforms
- Social media has changed interpersonal communication, creating new ways for people to connect, share experiences, and mobilize for causes. It has also played a critical role in shaping public discourse and social movements.
5. Economic Impact
- The Internet has spurred the growth of new industries and economic models, such as e-commerce, digital marketing, and remote work. This has significantly changed how businesses operate and engage with consumers.
6. Innovation Catalyst
- It has enabled technological advancements in other fields, including artificial intelligence, cloud computing, and IoT (Internet of Things), thereby pushing the boundaries of what is possible.
Conclusion
While there have been many significant inventions in the field of communications, the Internet stands out due to its profound impact on how we connect, share, and collaborate in an increasingly digital world.
Henry asked AI
Which is the most important invention of all time and why?
Determining the most important invention of all time is subjective and can vary based on different perspectives. However, a common contender for this title is the wheel. Here’s why:
Importance of the Wheel
- Fundamental to Transportation: The wheel revolutionized how people traveled and transported goods, leading to the development of carts, chariots, and eventually vehicles.
- Catalyst for Trade: The ability to move goods over long distances more efficiently facilitated trade, which was crucial for economic development and the rise of civilizations.
- Enhancement of Machinery: The wheel is integral to many machines. Its principles are applied in countless inventions, from simple devices like water wheels to complex machinery in modern manufacturing.
- Cultural Exchange: Improved transportation enabled cultural exchange and interaction between different societies, contributing to the spread of ideas, technologies, and cultural practices.
- Foundation for Future Innovations: The concepts associated with the wheel have influenced numerous other inventions, including gears and engines, ultimately shaping the industrial and technological advancements we see today.
In summary, the wheel’s impact on transportation, trade, and technology has made it one of the most transformative inventions throughout human history.
Today’s grim news revelations

Poh’s joy habit
Singing in all sorts of places at all sorts of times but most significantly when in the toilet, while showering and in shopping centres.
It just happens
Metaphorically Speaking – 6


Things break down almost before they emerge.
Biggest challenges
Staying motivated
Feeling relevant
Wanting to be alive
Feeling good about being old
Summarising the positives of each day
Appreciating political and religious leaders
Feeling intrinsic satisfaction.
A powerful leader who promotes dental care


Torrential driving rain in Darwin this afternoon

Declining support for democracy in Australia

First AFL game for season 2026
R





Sydney, behind at half time went on to win because of a 75 third quarter – the third best in AFL history.





PARLIAMENT IN CANBERRA
Short sighted
Crap laden bitching and snitching
PARLIAMENT or a ‘CRACKLE of COCKATOOS’?
Listening to the Senate in Canberra this afternoon during question time, all I can say that this chamber of debate resembles and reflects a bloody awful mess of misplaced, patriotism, foolish and stupid questions, and quite inane answers. Not that anyone would hear the answers for all the squawking that is going on.
I have listened to this chamber before and it was a disgrace. It is always a disgrace.
Cartoonist’s take on Iran


The moon in the sky at 15 to midnight

Tomorrow’s news today

Three grim front pages from “The Australian”



Best you keep away from the Parap Tavern and Restaurant


Opening autobiographic line for Poor Old Henry
“I am a man of many names”.
Old Quirky Henry – 2


Poor Old Quirky Henry

The world is choking on people
AI CONFIRMS
As of the latest estimates, the global birth and death rates are as follows:
Births
- Approximately 385,000 babies are born each day worldwide.
Deaths
- Approximately 150,000 people die each day globally.
Summary
- Net Increase: This results in a net daily population increase of around 235,000 people.
These numbers can vary based on several factors including healthcare advancements, socio-economic developments, and changes in global health policies.
Horrible
What is happening in the middle of the world from west to east is horrible Terror rules and missiles are doing the talking. Peace has gone Armageddon is spreading across the globe. What a transformation; it is literally a case of hell on earth.
Beach at Lee Point at low tide

A tree on the beach at Lee Point NT

So strong … So resolute
Q. In what way is Donald Trump like Phantom?
A. “Phantom has the strength of ten tigers” (Old jungle saying).
Shopping draw cards for Poor Old Henry
Shopping preference
Given some of the places we had to shop during years of outback appointments, I consider us lucky to have the choice of either Woolworths or Coles in Darwin. We shop in both, but I confess—a swing in preference to Coles in the past few years.
While prices are comparable, Cole’s offers outstanding opportunities for customers to earn credits toward some quality kitchen and dining extras. Since 2024, Coles has offered credits (One credit for every $20 spentand with bonus crdit opportunities) for kitchen knives, stone glass containers, European glassware, and now kitchen aid cookware. I have been able to obtain some quality items that help support members of our family in their business.
These days, Woolworths offers incentives of a less durable nature (cards and things) with appeal to children, but nothing of a long-lasting and practical nature.
In terms of comparison, it is Coles every time for me.
Essentials for Poor Old Henry
Shoes and socks
A writing tool
Essential foods and liquid
This pizza cost $20


Thank goodness for the school canteen
Canteen Lady = CL
Poor Old Henry = POH
CL “I’m a canteen lady”’
POH “Well, what do you know?”
CL “I’m a canteen lady and can help you to grow”
POH “Help me to grow!!??”
CL “Help you to grow”
POH “How?”
CL “With my nourishing food I can help you to grow”.
AND IT WORKED !
“The Australian” reports on the Middle East






Rain Looms toward Leanyer




March 2 2026
Going under the powerlines in a motor car






ABSENCE MAY BE UNAVOIDABLE
Absence from school
The issue of school attendance in both remote and urban school situations is one continuing to attract attention. That has been so for the past 40 years. Solutions are proposed but often not followed up by authorities.
In 2009 the enrolment of school age children became compulsory. However, there are still many school aged children in the Territory who have never been enrolled.
For children in urban schools, absence for a host of reasons occurs during term time . A major factor is that of families taking holidays during school terms when airfares and accomodation are cheaper. Attendance can be a problem for all schools.
Lead from the front.
Principals, school leadership teams and school councils need to be proactive when dealing with attendance issues. One strategy that works, is to encourage students on term time holidays, to develop a travelogue covering their experiences. This helps reinforce the learning children do while on family travels. Using media (photos and videos) to embellish adventures, adds to the written word. Trip diaries can be shared with classes and may even attract commendation and awards from classroom teachers and principals.
With a little imagination and by recognising travel as providing learning opportunities, these times away from school can become significant learning journeys for children.
While some parents request holiday assignments and worksheets, these are often not completed. That does not justify the time and effort taken by staff setting up these individual programs.
More than legislation needed
Legislating to solve attendance problems can be pretentious. The Tasmanian Government has decreed that from the beginning of 2018, no family holidays during term time will be allowed. Families will be liable for penalties of up to $2000 if they fail to follow this attendance directive.
Tasmania could have learned from the NT. We have legislation about school attendance, but when tested in court it has had very limited success. Further, the many steps that have to be actioned prior to any court hearing, are both lengthy and onerous.
There needs to be some follow up for all students on this issue, including recognition of children with outstanding attendance records. Mention in school newsletters and the presentation of merit certificates are two ways of acknowledging conscientious attenders. However, absences which result from family circumstances ought not be punitively treated. Encouraging children toward educational enrichment through their travels is
IS A SCHOOL A SCHOOL OR A CRECHE
Published 13 years ago
Teachers, particularly Primary School teachers often wonder whether schools are schools. It seems that many including parents, politicians and the community at large think of them as creches. Accord hij ing to the Macquarie Dictionary a school is a place where instruction is given for children. A creche is a nursery where children are cared for while their parents work. It seems to many educators that parents and primary caregivers are muddled between the two.
I am not blaming parents for the social malaise of the early 21st century. Talking about parents, schools and children Jeff Wells (Weekend Australian 20-21 April 1991) wrote it is a sign of the economic times that many families have to offer their children to be brought up by institutions alternate the nuclear family because of economic imperatives.
Changes in Educational Perception and School Definition
During the past fifteen to twenty years, for instance, teachers and office staff have become increasingly the minders for sick children, They are sent to school when unwell because parents cannot afford the time off work to care for them. The phenomena of unwell children spending their days in school medical rooms is exacerbated by industrial relations laws that either don’t recognise or are unkind to the needs of parents. This is still the case, notwithstanding the changes to legislation that has lead to some apparent enlightenment and added employee entitlement under the Fair Work Act.This puts school staff into a position of being minders, with school too often like unto health centres.
Front and centre to this are children who will endure as much as they can when sent to school ill, because they fear consequences if parents are contacted by the school about their unwellness. Over my years as a school principal, I became all too aware of this phenomena.
It is during the past twenty odd years that vacation school care, outside school hours care (before and after school) homework centres, school extracurricular programs for sport and so on, have sprung up. I have the greatest respect for the support these programs offer, but make the point that their necessity has been occasioned by parents who are increasingly obligated to work and occupational commitment. The modern world and economic necessity have prioritised their time, largely taking family destiny out of their parental hands.
Expecations coming down from On High
Added to this role expansion (some would say distortion) are in-school imperatives increasingly driven by Australian Government compliance requirement setting detailed agendas which put a real squash on school, learning and teaching time. principals and teachers in schools are feeling the squeeze like never before. Be it wise or not, school based educators appear to be increasingly supplicant to these demands; rarely if ever is debate about the wisdom or otherwise of imposed agendas initiated at school or system level. Schools and staff are expected to ‘stretch’ and cover curricular demands.
I recall Jim Spinks, a prominent Tasmanian school Principal and ‘practical academic’ advising that if things are added onto the school curriculum, items have to be dropped off in order to enable sensible accommodation. This exhortation is rarely followed meaning that schools and staff members become overwhelmed by requirements.
Metaphorically, schools are like sponges, given more and more to soak up: The capacity to endlessly absorb responsibility is reaching toward a perilous end-point. Confirming this is both anecdotal and empirical evidence attesting to teachers leaving the profession in increasing numbers. There is only so much a body can take and there is a huge lack of appreciation offered schools and staff members.
Aspiration and Actuality
Caring educators believing in and practising quality education always aim to meet the needs of learners. However there is an onus on society, its governments and its institutions to make sure schools and educators are affirmatively recognised and appreciated. Meeting the needs of children and students will be more likely to happen if education’s key servants – teachers and support staff – are given support, credit and recognition deserved for they role they play in educational and developmental partnerships.
At least this fruit did not come from China


No moon tonight


Trite crap stories we do not need


The origins of Toto the Dog – AI
Where and when did Anthony Albanese purchase Toto or was she received as a gift?
Anthony Albanese’s dog, Toto, was not purchased but rather received as a gift. Toto was given to the Prime Minister by an acquaintance, and the adoption was highly publicized. The dog has since appeared as a beloved companion and has even been gifted items by various dignitaries during official visits, such as clothing and accessories from Indonesian President Prabowo Subianto.
For more details, you can read about it through this article about Prabowo’s gift to Toto.
I asked AI about Toto’s dining habits
Does Toto the Prime Minister’s dog eat at the table with the Prime Minister?
Yes, Toto, the Prime Minister’s dog, is often seen as a beloved companion and is allowed to eat at the table with the Prime Minister during informal meals. This practice highlights the affectionate relationship between the Prime Minister and Toto, demonstrating a more personal and approachable side of political life. However, the details can vary based on the specific circumstances or the preferences of the Prime Minister.
Another question to about Toto
As the Prime Minister’s dog, does Toto receive a living allowance or any special benefits?
Toto, as the Prime Minister’s dog, is often regarded as a public figure and may receive special attention, but there typically isn’t a formal “living allowance” for pets in government roles. However, the dog might benefit from the following:
- Care and Maintenance: The government may cover expenses related to the dog’s care, including food, grooming, and veterinary services.
- Living Arrangements: Toto would likely reside in the official residence, where the expenses of maintaining that environment would indirectly benefit the dog.
- Public Appearances: Being the Prime Minister’s pet could afford Toto media exposure and public affection, which can be considered a social benefit.
- Security: There might be enhanced security measures in place for the well-being of the Prime Minister’s pet.
While these points indicate some level of indirect benefits, Toto does not receive a direct living allowance like a human official would.
I asked AI about Toto
Does Toto the Dog have her own special room at The Lodge?
Yes, Toto the Dog has her own special room at The Lodge. It is designed to accommodate her needs and is decorated in a cozy and comfortable manner. This room reflects her status as a beloved companion, ensuring she has a personal space to relax and enjoy. If you have any specific questions about Toto or The Lodge, feel free to ask!
I asked AI if Toto the Dog was a beloved pet
Yes, Toto the Dog, who is Anthony Albanese’s pet, is indeed considered a beloved companion. Toto is a Cavoodle (a crossbreed of a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel and a Poodle) and has garnered affection from the public and media alike.
He is often featured in social media posts by Albanese, where he expresses a connection with the dog, showcasing their bond. The affection shown not only by Albanese but also by the Australian public indicates that Toto has a special place in the hearts of many, making him a popular figure as the Prime Minister’s pet.
For visual updates and interactions, you can follow Toto’s adventures and see why he is cherished as Australia’s “first dog.” For example, you can check out Toto’s official social media presence here.
I asked about marriages being celebrated in hot air balloons
Yes, there are several instances of couples celebrating their marriages in hot air balloons over stunning landscapes, including mountains and seas. Here are some notable examples:
- Brisbane Hot Air Balloon Wedding: Couples can exchange vows in a hot air balloon, offering a unique experience that provides breathtaking views of the landscape below. More details here.
- Jackson Hole Elopement: An adventurous elopement in a hot air balloon provides couples with the opportunity to exchange vows against the beautiful backdrop of the Teton Mountains. Read about it here.
- Lake Tahoe Weddings: Couples can plan their wedding in a hot air balloon while floating above Lake Tahoe, creating an unforgettable experience. Explore options here.
- Gold Coast Elopement: A sunrise wedding over the Gold Coast was captured as the sun began to rise, highlighting the romantic nature of balloon weddings. View the experience here.
- Yarra Valley Weddings: Celebrate your love with a sunrise balloon ride over the Yarra Valley, providing stunning aerial views. Find out more here.
- Breathtaking Elopements: A hot air balloon wedding in the Hunter Valley is highlighted as an unforgettable choice for couples seeking a unique experience. Discover this option here.
These examples illustrate the romantic and adventurous spirit couples bring to their weddings, celebrating their love in the skies.
I asked AI about ice baths in igloos
Yes, there are records and experiences of individuals taking ice baths in very cold locations, including igloos and frozen natural bodies of water. Here are some notable references:
- Ice Bath in Sweden: At the Lapland Guesthouse in Swedish Lapland, guests can partake in ice bathing in a hole cut in the ice of the nearby Lainio River during winter. This is a common practice in that region. Read more here.
- Arctic SnowHotel: Guests in Rovaniemi, Lapland, Finland, can stay at an ice hotel where temperatures remain between 0°C and -5°C. While not specifically an ice bath experience, the environment reflects the extreme cold where similar activities can be done. Learn more about it here.
- YouTube Experiences: There are personal accounts and videos documenting the experience of ice plunges in Finland, often combined with sauna culture as a form of cold therapy. You can find examples on YouTube that illustrate this cold exposure practice. See a related video here.
- Personal Discussions: Platforms like Reddit and Facebook have discussions where individuals share their personal experiences and seek recommendations for ice bathing in regions like Rovaniemi, where cold exposure is a popular practice. Check out a Reddit thread about ice baths here.
- DIY Ice Bath: On Instagram, users share their DIY projects for creating ice swimming holes, indicating a trend of ice bathing in very cold climates is becoming popular. View a related post here.
These examples highlight the cultural practices and personal experiences related to ice bathing in extreme cold conditions
I asked AI about Vladimir Putin’s penchant for animals
Yes, Vladimir Putin has had several pets over the years, predominantly dogs. Here are some details about his pets:
- Dogs: Putin is known to have a fondness for dogs. He has owned several dogs, including:
- Koni, a black Labrador, which was a gift from the President of Kazakhstan. Koni has been seen accompanying Putin during official events.
- More recently, he received a puppy as a belated birthday gift from the President of Turkmenistan.
- Other Animals: In addition to dogs, Putin has been associated with various other animals:
- He has shown interest in big cats, including tigers and leopards.
- There are instances of him being photographed with other animals, showcasing a softer side to his public persona.
For more comprehensive information about Putin’s pets, you can refer to this Wikipedia page.
If you have more questions or need further information, feel free to ask!
I asked AI about respect for political leaders
Response
Most Admired Political Leader
As of 2023, Narendra Modi, the Prime Minister of India, is widely regarded as the most admired political leader in the world, with approval ratings reported around 70%. This places him at the top of global leader approval ratings.
For more information, you can check:
Most Despised Political Leader
On the other end of the spectrum, Vladimir Putin, the President of Russia, is frequently cited as one of the most despised political leaders, with disapproval ratings as high as 91% in various polls.
Additional notable mentions include:
- Alexander Lukashenko of Belarus, with significant disapproval as well.
- In the U.S., Joe Biden has been noted for having relatively high disapproval ratings at around 52%.
To explore this further, here’s a relevant source:
I asked AI if the proffering of grant was a gift or a scam
I am told I have a grant or gift from SEDA to be delivered by FEDEX on receipt and confirmation a contribution of $1000 from myself. I wonder what this is about and have been told by others I know that they have received grants. Can you tell me more
It sounds like you’re dealing with a situation that may involve a grant or gift from SEDA (Small Enterprise Development Agency), which could potentially be tied to business se programs. However, the requirement to send $1000 before receiving the funds is a significant red flag.
Here are some key points to consider:
- Legitimacy of the Grant:
- Authentic grants typically do not require the recipient to pay any money upfront. Be cautious of any communications requesting money as a prerequisite for obtaining funding.
- SEDA Background:
- SEDA supports small businesses and entrepreneurs by providing resources and guidance. They do offer grants, but these are usually structured to avoid upfront costs.
- FedEx Involvement:
- The mention of FedEx suggests there may be a service to deliver funds or materials; however, it should not be tied to any payment from you.
- Scams:
- Be aware that there are many scams involving grant scams that ask for personal details or payments. If it seems too good to be true, it often is.
Next Steps:
- Verification: Contact SEDA directly through their official website or hotline to verify whether you have truly been awarded a grant.
- Documentation Review: Check any documents or correspondence you received for signs of legitimacy (official logos, contact details, etc.).
- Report Suspicious Activity: If you suspect fraud, you can report it to local consumer protection agencies or the authorities.
For more detailed information, you can refer to the following useful links:
Always prioritize your safety and financial security with these kinds of offers!
I am proceeding with caution
I asked AI about expensive and cheap hotels.
Most Expensive Hotel
The most expensive hotel in the world as reported is Lover’s Deep Luxury Submarine Hotel with prices exceeding $250,000 per night. Other notable mentions include rooms at hotel chains like the Mandarin Oriental, which can cost around $43,000 per night.
Cheapest Hotel
As for the cheapest hotels, they can be found for as low as $14 per night in countries like Indonesia. This makes Indonesia one of the most affordable places for budget travelers.
If you’re looking for hotels within specific budgets or types of amenities, I can help search for those as well!
NOTHING BEATS THIS
Beautiful creamy butter on full sized bread slices from the Peninsular Bakery and Cafe in Nhulunbuy Northern Territory, then heaped with spaghetti.

CAN “WOKE”
Dump the word and everything for which it stands. It has brought abomination into this world.
A meal of remembrance and reflection

Once a favourite – always a favourite
Now THAT is a piece of crumbed salmon

From Leanyer Seafoods at Hibiscus Shoppingtown.
The primary purpose of the Australian Government
David Craig
“To protect Australian citizens”.
Well the job is NOT BEING DONE
Spot the moon – 2


Cloudy focus but it’s there.
Spot the moon – 1


Sarah Ferguson’s sister

Has a dog that is SO MUCH BIGGER

Than Toto the Bow-wow.
Possibility/ Probability
Mascots and Emblems
- There is a possibility and a more than remote probability that Toto the Dog will have its paw prints engraved into the tiles at the entrance to The Lodge.
- There is a possibility and a 50% probability chance of the Aboriginal flag joining the Australian flag on the mast atop the House on the Hill.
- There is a possibility and a strong probability that the Albanese Government will be returned for at least the next two elections.
Creativity through poetry and metaphor
Only requirement – imagination
Go for it and have fun.
Why the hell did “The Australian” reject this comment?
Charles Darwin University did not experience antisemitic behaviour 25/2/26
It is to the credit of the Vice Chancellor Scott Bowman and the University Board that none of this antisemitic behaviour ever penetrated the Charles Darwin University Campus
I live in Darwin
I have family attending the University of
I know it did not happen.
“The Australian” gets twitchy about approving comments.
Knocked this one back – WHY?
Radicalisation of older children 25/2/26
It is probably true to suggest that the older children in the group would, by now, have formulated thinking that indulges radicalised ideas. Brainwashing can. It has an enormous impact on impressionable minds
Sorry for Pollies Families
So I checked with AI
Could I register a ‘go-fund-me’ page to support travel for the immediate members of a politican’s family as a registered charity?
Registering a GoFundMe page as a charity to support travel for the immediate family of a politician involves several considerations:
Steps to Consider
- Establish a Registered Charity:
- You must set up a non-profit organization (501(c)(3) in the U.S.) that meets IRS requirements.
- Your organization should have a mission that aligns with charitable purposes.
- Define the Purpose:
- Clearly define how supporting the travel of a politician’s family aligns with your charity’s mission. This might not always be seen as a charitable purpose unless it serves a broader public benefit.
- Compliance and Oversight:
- Ensure that expenditures align with the charity’s goals and are transparent.
- Keep in line with local laws regarding fundraising and charitable activities.
- Fundraising Platforms:
- Choose a platform like GoFundMe that supports fundraisers for registered charities. Ensure the funds are managed correctly to maintain transparency and compliance.
Tax-Deductibility
- Donor Deductions: If established properly as a charity, donations could be tax-deductible for donors under IRS regulations.
Legal Considerations
- Consult Legal Counsel: It’s essential to seek legal advice to navigate regulations governing charitable organizations and ensure compliance.
Conclusion
While it is possible to create a charity that could support travel for a politician’s family, it requires careful planning, compliance, and transparency to align with charitable laws and ensure proper use of funds.
I will do anything I can to support the families of our Politicans who give up so much to support their spouses and parents who give unstubtky of their time and give up so much to pursue what is best for us all.
The Leanyer Newsagent’s joke board this week

Tomorrow’s news today

These shoes were made for …
Every thing
Any trip
Anywhere
Any hour
Any time
From 00.01 at the start of the 24 hour cycle
To 11.59,59 at the end of the 24 hour cycle.
My shoes
Are my
Constant companions.
My feet may wear out
Before they do.
Shoes.

Were new

Just like Poor Old Henry
A beautiful picture of a man and his dog

Charles Darwin University hits a gravel road
Charles Darwin University has undertaken a significant expansion of its campus, both interstate and overseas. Locally, academic and trades programs have multiplied, appealing to an ever-widening pool of students.
Suddenly, the university has been jolted by a spoke in the wheel of self realisation about course shortfalls. Sadly, that means many students have course requirements that need to be addressed, while key university leaders are lost in the necessities of redress.
I recall words of wisdom addressed to school leaders at a national conference held in Darwin in 1992. Frederick Wirt, the Professor of Political Science at the University of Illinois (USA), spoke with delegates. His address was titled ‘Will the centre hold?’ Wirt lauded growth, development, and expansion, but cautioned that it should never be at the expense of consolidating and reinforcing programs already in place.
Our university was established on a solid foundational base. I hope that what has happened is a temporary aberration, with the CDU maintaining steady growth and development for all, and particularly our domestic students.
Possibility/Probability
Not all fictional nonsense
- There is a possibility and a very strong probability that the Russian War on Ukraine might well turn into the 100 years war.
- There is a possibility and a strong probability that in the Australian Rules Football upcoming season, West Coast Eagles will again ‘earn’ the wooden spoon.
- There is a possibility and a strong probability that Chinese Navy flotillas will regularly circumnavigate Australia.
The mothers edict
You are not right for each other.
You are not suitable
You will never be comparable
Your relationship will quickly sour
Hour after hour
Day after day
Week after week
Month after month
Unsought unwanted forecasting advice.
Finally
FINALLY
Shut down.
Nearly
Sixty years later
We are still together
And so very happy
We found
Each other
All those decades ago
Beautiful flowers on front verge frangipani



A beautiful evening meal

Compare NT Duck Hunters with Vladimir Putin – 4
If ducks and geese numbers reduce, the hunting season in the NT is shortened.
No matter how many. Ukrainians are killed or injured and no matter how many Russian troops are killed, the Putin killing season is never stayed.
The BIGGEST challenge for poor old Octogenarian Henry.
Getting used to being old and comfortable in my own skin./3
Not Approved – but so very true
When discussing issues related to First Nations people, one has to be very careful to state the obvious without stating the obvious. When writing, especially in letters or comments for publication, the content of what is written – its purpose and meaning – has to be buried in inferential rather than direct language.
If you call it as it is, you are deemed to be racist.
Patriotic . To what!
The stability Australia once had and the predictable, developmental place it once was, made it easy to be patriotic. One flag, one people, oneness in purpose and spirit. That was in the pre-Whitlam era when obligation and responsibility were part of the equation.
The changes toward fragmentation of community and the tearing apart of the warp and weft of the Australian perspective were down to Whitlam – an out-and -out leftist – and the focus of his government.
(I was not devastated or surprised when the Whitlam Government was dismissed by Sir John Kerr. At that time, I was a young educator at both Warburtin Ranges in WA (1974/75) and at Numbulwar, NT from July 1975 onward.
In both communities, I saw firsthand what happened when PM Whitlam announced that Aboriginal Communities had to shift almost immediately from being managed, to owning and applying the principles of self determination and self management to their operations. Funding appropriations depended on this action.
Apart from staffing issues, the limited Warburton economy, based on cattle management, floundered.
At Numbulwar, a flourishing market garden, along with an established poultry industry—including 5,000 laying hens—went into immediate decline. Both enterprises had supplied market outlets from Groote Eylandt to Katherine. The market garden was left to be overrun by weeds, and the poultry industry completely collapsed.
[These are but two examples of the wanton run-down that followed the ‘enlightenment’.]
Whitlam Government policies at the time demanded an immediate ‘ownership’ being foisted on people who had not been readied or trained for these responsibilities.
Community ventures in many communities were lost to the forced policies of the Federal Government at that time. So much was lost because the government made ill-considered haste.)
Whitlam’s other major contribution was to open Australian borders to all and sundry who wanted to flock in. Discontinuing the White Australia Policy was a good thing, but the management of the multicultural infusion that has followed has become less constrained and more open to the point of ‘anything goes’.
In essence, we no longer control our borders. The dam wall behind which Australia was contained, has been blown asunder; regardless of their political affiliations and motivations for moving, anyone from anywhere is welcome at any time with few questions asked.
The foundations on which this country stood when I was younger have been jack-hammered and splintered. Australia is now an unpredictable and unstable country.
That makes it hard to quantify patriotism.
A somber reflection from Poor Old Henry
It is 10.00 pm on February 23, 2026
In two hours time I will depart the septuagenarian years and become an octogenarian.
What now?
Where to from here?
I am an old man about to saddle up with another later of age.
Very, very old indeed.
Cooling down at Warburton Ranges in 1974

Off for a ride at Warburton Ranges 56 years ago

Advice to Poor Young Henry
It would be the same advice I gave as School Principal Henry to two students paraded before me at the end of a school year.
The two were presented, without notice, by a parent who was flying solo with parental responsibilities.
I took the two lads, one at a time, into my office and said:
“Name
Be good
Sin not
Love the Lord
Respect your parent
Have a good holiday”.
To me 70 years ago, I would have said the same sort of thing.
Daly River Community and the flooding Daly River

A desert rose of beautiful party pies


Scrumptious and yummy one piece at a time
Dedicated to the appreciation of food I have, thanks to Nigella Lawson.
Yet another knockback from “The Australian”
It seems that Geoffrey Epstein is becomng a major power broker and influencer from beyond the grave.
THIS IS TRUE
Another knockback … not allowed to write anything negative even in evaluating The Australian.
“The Australian” is an outstanding paper. I subscribe online and buy paper copies of some issues to send to my family in Nhulunbuy, NT. My only concern is that writing to the editor is a waste of time because very little gets through to publication. I can accept that because I am a very old man and not an important person in the scheme of things. I write a lot in online comments and am bemused at times by being ‘not approved’ when what I write is the absolute truth.
Compare NT Duck Hunters with Vladimir Putin – 3
Duck hunters have daily bag limits but the bag limit on Ukrainians is unrestricted.
Compare NT Duck Hunters with Vladimir Putin – 2
Duck hunters are restricted to hunting ducks during daylight hours.
Ukrainian’s are under the gun 24/7 – day and night and in all weathers.
Compare NT Duck Hunters with Vladimir Putin – 1
Duck hunters have an open season and closed season. The Russian President pursues Ukrainians 24/7 365 days a year and has done so for four years. it is always open season on Ukrainians
Unimpeded impeded
Bored old Henry
Yes,
Boredom gets at me every so often.
Watching,
Fanciful politicans spouting crass garbage.
Listening,
To people promoting peace when they are intent on war.
Seeing,
Macabre scenes without end on television about fights between Aboriginal people in rural and urban communities who expect authorities to sort their domestic situations – until the next altercation.
Knowing,
That countless reports, commissions, inquiries and examinations will yield recommendations that will never be actioned.
Understanding
That the world will continue its downward spiral confirmed at a futurist conference more than thirty years ago.
Favourite People.
My wife.
Our children and their partners.
Our ten grandchildren.
Family
First,
Last,
Best.
THE VERY WORST ASPECT OF ROYAL DARWIN HOSPITAL
DD
During the past three years, my wife has needed the support of the RDH – within the emergeency department and as a ward patient – on several occasions. When she is in the hospital, I spend the full visitor period allowed, with her. This has provided me with ample opportunity to observe process and procedure.
My coming and going both over time and recently, have broadened my awareness of the RDH modus operandi.
The staff, from doctors and nurses down to support and ancillary carers, do a very good job. The stretch placed on them at times is exhausting but is taken in their stride.
The most significant issue at RDH, across the ED and many wards, is the untoward behaviour of some patients, often heightened by some of their visitors. Conformity to a code of conduct that considers others is excused. Noise levels are bedlam and bed rest for many patients, an impossibility.
Royal Darwin Hospital administrators must address this issue if the atmosphere within the facility is to embrace the comfort and needs of all patients.
A different take on bird bathing

Thoughts from the Shadows – 12
- The confidence people had in Australia has been eroded.
- Youth is fleeting – being old is for a far longer period.
- Layers around Earth: Impure air, dust, disease, space junk.
- I worry about scams falling like boulders on my head.
- Scams surge like tsunami’s trying to bowl us off our feet.
JUDGE NOT THE GREAT MAN – NAUGHTY SUPREME COURT
JUDGE NOT THE GREAT MAN
The court sends ripples
That’s so sad.
To counter Trump,
That’s too bad,
He will not rest,
Appeal he must,
In his decisions,
We must trust,
If we want Earth’s peace restored,
Then I dare to say,
We must be withTrump,
All the way
Relations positive impact
The very best?
Our own nuclear family – all of them.
My favourite drink

Drink – no grog
“Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging. Whosoever drinks (grog) is not wise.” Bible.
My last drink of alcoholic beverage was on February 22, 2012.
Donald Trump is the best. The best? The VERY BEST!!
HE IS THE MAN WHO MEANS THE WORLD TO THE WORLD
HE HOLDS THE WORLD THE WHOLE WORLD IN HIS HANDS.
WITHOUT DON
WE ARE DONE.
ANOTHER COMMENT NOT APPROVED
Relating to Ex-Prince Andrew – and indeed many others!
Sexual urges can have disastrous consequences
Surely that is true
(The paper pondered for many hours before the rejection came through. Oh, to be a comments moderator.)
Frogs in the Drains
Frogs in the drains say “Rrrppppppp”
Frogs in the drains say “Rrrppppppp”
Frogs in the drains
When it rains
Frogs in the drains say “Rrrppppppp”
Welcome to the weekend

The growth of a pothole on a busy back avenue in Ludmilla



Australia is loose with border security

Geese to water

Home grown pineapple


Tomorrow’s news today

AFL STATE OF ORIGIN
After the game a fantastic pyrotechnic display lighting up Optus Stadium, the Swan River and surrounds.






AFL STATE OF ORIGIN
It returns after 21 years. Held in Perth in front of a crowd of 58,000






Guard that water

Sentries on guard

of the House of Pete.
A long time blogging

Tomorrow’s news today

A question of balance

The way one portrays during interview




Commemorating the Dugong



Twenty metres from the edge to the Arafura Sea.

Lessons from the past to learn – 1

An interesting 50 cent coin

I

Two ponds, one goose

Bird Break for Morning Tea



Darwin’s Wood Street skyline




Budgeting wisdom
Save it, you gave it. Spend it, it’s gone.
Prioritise.
Avoid booze, fags and drugs.
Eat in more often than eating out.
Donate carefully.
Keep good records.
Avoid scams.
Save coin then bank when there is a substantial amount.
Save then buy and avoid shelling out ‘dead’ money in interest payments.
I could go on.
Poor Old Henry
Finish
I am ready
To look into the remaining period
Of time
Left for me in mortal terms
And contemplate scenarios
Of how
And when
It will end.
I am not afraid
Or fearing the end
Especially in a world
Fraught with uncertainty
With so much focus on tinsel and glitter, froth and bubble,
Where nothing counts
When I go
I will be gone.
The discovery that rocked Poor Old Henry’s soul!



Panda Foods Excelled themselves today




Nigella Lawson is the person I credit with stimulating and sustaining my interest in food .
BEYOND MY COMPREHENSION

And each of these places would probably cost north of a million dollars.
AN IRRISISTIBLE SNACK – SAUSAGE ROLL SLICE AND DIP

Thank you Nigella. Lawson, for the exhilaration you inspire in my soul for good, yet simple, food.
SOLITARY CONFINEMENT

Duck Swooping

Law Breaker
No, no, never,
Never I sincerely implore,
Never ever have I tried,
To break our wonderful law.
Seeking worms, grubs, creepy crawlies and substance

Another comment not approved

“Smug”, says the lead picture to this story. That may well come to be misplaed.
AND THEY WOULD NOT APPROVE THR OBVIOUS FOR PUBLICATION/
‘SAYERS’ AND ‘DOERS
There are two kinds of personalities in this world. Regardless of what we do when we go these personality types are with us. There are the “sayers” and the “doers”.
I believe it is very important as educators to be people who earn the respect of others
by “living” the statements that we make in the positions that we uphold to others. It is all together too easy to be somebody who commands and ask other people to do things and to act in particular ways. That after all is a part of the teaching and development of others. However we need to be prepared to live by the precepts we espouse. Unless we adhere in our lives to the things we ask of others we will not earn their respect.
“Do as I do” is very important in the teacher – pupil relationship. If students know us as teachers who live by this principle their respect will be enhanced. This applies to every aspect of that relationship.
If we want children to be on time and say so, then we need to be on time ourselves. Everyone children to return promptly after recess and lunch, then we can’t avoid is teachers to be late ourselves. If we want children to wear hats out in the playground then as teachers we need to do the same. If we put it upon children to keep their desks and tidy tray is clean neat and tidy, then teachers’ tables and working benches should be kept the same way.
I don’t believe we should ask the children to maintain standards that we are not prepared to maintain ourselves. And example might be handwriting. If we ask children to take care when they’re writing in where books then we need to have the same set of standards that we maintain with written work. We might think the children don’t sense or understand what we’re doing but believe you me, they are very sharp and perceptive in that regard.
The principle extends to the way in which we approach our teaching tasks. The precepts or tenets under which we operate should not just be sets of empty words but reflective of vibrant teaching practices. In that way we earn the respect of our colleagues, the community and of course our students.
There may be occasions when we have to depart from the norm of usual operation. If that’s the case I believe it important that students and close colleagues understand why on the particular occasion the expected process can’t be followed.
Respect is a very important quality and in many ways the cement the binds those within an organisation together. It is a key value. If we earn the respect of others, self-respect also develops
MALE TEACHERS: ON THE ROAD TO EXTINCTION
Male teachers worldwide, especially in Australia and our Northern Territory, are a vanishing species. What has happened? In my opinion, there is a need to turn the situation around and increase the number of male teachers in our schools, particularly our primary schools.
One of the most satisfying periods of my teaching career was at Nhulunbuy Primary School, at Gove, in North-East Arnhem Land, 650 kilometres east of Darwin. During my principalship (1983-1986), the school enrolled 750 students from Transition through to Year Seven. A further 90 children were being readied for formal learning in our preschool.
The school had a staff of 52 teachers and ancillaries, which included nineteen male teachers (36% of our teaching staff). We men had our Touch Football team, which made up almost all of one of the local cricket teams, and we were a major contributing force to local rugby league, basketball, and other male-focused sports teams.
I didn’t appreciate it then, but a gender balance of that nature is a rarity. The ratio of male-to-female teachers in Australian primary schools is 1:27. At 1:9, in high schools, the situation is just a little better, but still, 90% of the staff are women. At Leanyer School, where I was Principal for 20 years, we had, at best, five male members of more than 30 staff. In some schools, the only male on the team is the janitor!
Where have all the male teachers gone, and why? Male primary teachers are an almost extinct species. Men in teacher training at all levels are rare. More and more qualified and practising male teachers are leaving for other less stressful occupations.
Historical Reasons
There are historical reasons for the perceived unattractiveness of primary teaching to men. They centre on the perceptions of salary, status, community regard and an inherent idea that men working with children run counter to the male psyche. The notion of ‘macho’ and children’s nurture seem somehow incongruent. This reasoning is somewhat mythical. Maybe it’s even ‘claptrap’! To hang the diminishment of the male teaching species on such ideas is illogical. However, it does nothing to ease the situation, as there are now very few male teachers, particularly in primary schools.
Men Under Siege
I do not doubt that male teachers in primary schools are under siege. Along with fellow educators, I study the media’s coverage of our profession. While the press is interpretative and accuracy sometimes skewed, it still reflects the perceptions generally held by the society of social institutions and its managers.
Diet of Male Dysfunctionalism
The community is fed a bountiful print, radio and TV diet of stories about male teacher dysfunctionalism. There has been and continues to be, a plethora of reports alleging interference with and abuse of children by male teachers. Sadly, some instances of infringement and violation against children and students are proven in court. However, a significant percentage of allegations leading to court action are baseless.
For those tried, ‘legal’ acquittal does not negate the associated moral perception and social resentment. Those found ‘not guilty’ by courts and those who never go to court because charges are dropped are left feeling tainted. In the minds of the wrongfully accused, the damage to their reputations is everlasting.
Children and students are increasingly aware of their rights to care and protection. ‘Stranger danger’, the ‘Kid’s Helpline’ and similar strategies are filling what, historically, has been an information void. Children must understand their rights and the respect that is due to them. Information from student disclosures, however, needs to be carefully checked before action is taken. If the information offered is accepted without verification, with allegations subsequently found to be untrue, then the accused is violated.
The Need for Human Warmth
Male teachers face a real dilemma. It’s no secret that primary children, particularly younger ones, often seek to be physically close to their teachers. Gripping the hands of teachers, giving teachers cuddles, and wanting to sit on teachers’ laps are manifestations of this deep-seated human need. Female teachers seem to be less at risk in this situation than males. Males may want to respond to children with human warmth and empathy but are warned off by a deep societal frown.
By contrast, middle-aged female teachers are often regarded as grandmotherly’. It seems much more socially acceptable for them to respond to the affection of children. A male teacher of the same age has to be much more circumspect, lest his actions be interpreted as those of a ‘dirty old man’.
The phenomena of single-parent families increasingly exacerbate the challenge. Single mothers often ask that, if possible, their children be placed with a male teacher for the sake of masculine role modelling. The scenario can become one that creates an acute conflict within the mind of the male teacher.
The Future for Male Teachers Is Not Rosy
There is an increasing focus on male teacher vulnerability, but tackling the issue has been, at best, oblique. Deflecting the problem is no way of handling its challenge. At some stage – hopefully sooner rather than later – a considered response to the issue by senior managers will be necessary. Ignoring the situation won’t make it go away. In an age where litigation is increasingly common, the threat to male teacher integrity will likely become more pronounced.
Many factors influence the issue of school staffing. Conversations with teachers reveal that the tension of being a vulnerable group weighs heavily on the minds of remaining male educators. I once had an excellent male teacher come to me saying he was resigning because of the weight of this perception. An outstanding teacher was forever lost to the profession.
The problem of the male teacher shortage will rapidly worsen shortly, given the ageing teaching profession and the imminent retirement of many existing male teachers. Unless something is done, primary schools will soon be staffed almost entirely by women.
Female teachers are valued educators and do a great job. However, there is a need for gender balance within schools to achieve organisational equilibrium. The worry is that we are sadly out of balance.
Connair Flying
Once a week there was a round-robin flight from Darwin to Darwin flown by Connair that included every port on the Arnhem circuit. Included in this once-weekly flight were Borroloola and Numbulwar. The route was from Borroloola to Numbulwar.
There was some capital work needing to be done at Numbulwar. We were expecting two tradesmen on that flight. The plane arrived, but not the tradesmen.
A follow-up telegram revealed that the two men had gotten off the plane at Borroloola, thinking Borroloola was Numbulwar. They did not discover their mistake until the plane had left.
The following week, the tradesmen arrived in Numbulwar. Seemingly they found the fishing in the intervening week to be both relaxing and rewarding!! How they justified that to the boss of the company, I am not sure.
When out in communities one could never be sure if the plane was going to be on time or whether it was going to be delayed. The one thing you could generally be sure about was it if the plane was due to arrive on a particular day, it would arrive on that day. Occasionally there was a blip in that regard but not too frequently.
An issue at times was the worry people had if they were using Connair to get to Darwin, Katherine, Groote Eylandt or Nhulunbuy to connect with another plane. For the most part, however, things did work pretty reasonably.
Connair was a vital lifeline for us during years of poor (if any) outback road connections and during years preceding telephone and internet connections that these days keep people linked.
DANIEL ANDREWS AC

I dream of rolling out the red carpet in front of his every footstep.
Bocquets and Brickbats


Domestic Violence reports rage on the other 364 days each year.
The latest chapter in my biography –
Henry is weeping but nobody cares.
Biography Title
Poor Old Henry
Expressions and Gestures – 2







Expressions and Gestures – 1





My challenges in 2026
Is trying ad trying to resist from voting for One Nation on the Australian political scene.
Backyard Bird Bliss at our Place




The Leanyer Nesagent’s Joke Board this Week

The NT Assembly before the August 2024 election and after the 2024 election.


Gate
Closed
Locked
Night
Door
Locked
Dead latched
Security
On
Adjusted
Window
Fastened
Crimsafed
Checked
Double checked
Bed
Door locked
Key secured
Four lots of protection
Hope that keeps intruders out
Lay
Waiting
For the envelopment of sleep.
Valentine’s Day flowers readied for sale



I Don’t Get This
The Canadian shooting in Canada elicited the following comment from me
What a terrible and awful event. How can anyone ever tell the end from the beginning
The Australian online moderator would notapprove my comment for publication in the reader’s reactions!
WHY?
“OUTSIDE LOOKING IN” – DEMENTIA THE CREEPING MIND PLAGUE
Our daughter has given me the okay to share her thoughts on the inroads into life that can be caused by the number one – known but not talked about – killer in Australia. Dementia.
She shared it with me, and what she wrote moved me into a world of pain and understanding because dementia has not been for me ‘on the outside looking in’ but rather has engaged me directly, in the early stages, without knowing, since its impact on our lives.
Dementia is often mentioned lightly, almost in passing, and without many people knowing or understanding its consequences. I believe many think its mention is a shame job; in the same way as cancer used to be regarded. Dementia is also a scourge that many are reluctant to acknowledge and more than willing to dismiss as not an issue or a concern.
It is for this reluctance that I would posit that there are far more people sufferingfrom dementia than the number of 450,000 that is suggested. It may well be that the actual number of sufferers is closer to the 1,000,000 mark of people predicted to be inflicted by dementia in 2050.
Funding for dementia programs and support is light on compared with research into other clinical areas. In Australia, funding for dementia programs is solely in the hands of the Federal Government, with no recognition or contribution from state or territory governments.
The impacts of this deleterious condition are eating into the brains of ever increasing numbers of people.
Please read and contemplate what our daughter has written.
Sincerely
Henry Gray
February 14 2026.
__________________________________________
Outside Looking In
My parents are Margaret Rose Gray (nee Martin), born May 28th, 1945, and Henry Maitland Gray, born February 24th, 1946. Their stories are not mine to tell, but I will say they did not have the happiest of childhoods and they both grew up having complicated relationships with their mothers. This led them to moving our family to the remotest areas of the NT when my brothers and I were young.
As parents they were ahead of their time. They seldom yelled or shouted, even more rarely used corporal punishment. Domestic labour and mental load were very evenly divided. We grew up secure in their love for us and for one another.
Things have changed in the last few years. Looking back with the benefit of hindsight the first signs I saw were at my 50th birthday party; nothing so wild that I couldn’t shrug it off as just “weird”.
Mum has dementia. A blanket term used to describe any number of conditions, much the same way cancer is. All with different causes and triggers. Genetic, physical, mental factors, lifestyle influences, environmental conditions. A treatment for one has no effect on another. One person will develop it; their identical twin will not. It has no rhyme, no reason, no mercy.
There are a lot of stats, fact and figures about dementia to be found with a simple google search. The scariest being that it is now the leading cause of death in Australia, that there are no truly effective treatments. Some things might slow the progression of the disease in some people; that is as hopeful as it gets. My father is now Mum’s full-time carer. Trying to find his way in a role no one would ever choose or want, but that has been thrust upon him by cruel fate.
I love both my parents. Respect and admire them more than I can say. They are the kind of people we should all aspire to be. As a person, a spouse and a parent I find myself following the example they set for me. Watching as this disease insinuates itself into every nook and cranny of their lives is an emotional and often overwhelming experience. I am on the outside looking in. I cannot bring myself to imagine what it must be like from the inside looking out.
My Mother
I am blessed to have been one of only a handful of people to truly know my mother. She has always been a deeply private person who hid her wit, her humour and her profound intellect. Now she does not need to hide as she becomes more and more a prisoner in her own mind. The portals that connect her to the world are narrowing; some seem to already have closed. Her eyes and ears collect the stimuli from The Now, but somewhere they become lost and so her mind sends her back to the past or into dream and figments of imagination. At times the dreams become waking terrors, and she sees, feels and hears people and events that are not there and never have been.
On good days she is HER; all the many facets that make up this woman who I love above all. My mother, the grandmother of my children, the wife of my father, the teacher, the mentor, the cook, the seamstress, the confidant, the pianist. All the roles she embraced and made her own. She was shaped by tragic events in her young life; the eldest child of a cold and unloving mother she was parentified from a very young age. Giving all to her younger siblings, especially the sisters favoured by her mother, to allow them to shine. Despite this, my mother was kind and loving. She seldom strayed outside her social comfort zone, but she saw everything around her and those of us fortunate enough to know her would cry with laughter at her stories. Growing up I would spend hours talking with her, often about nothing much at all. By listening to her I learned so much about life and the world and small ways we can act to make them better.
I miss those conversations. Now it can be so difficult to talk to her. She can jump from topic to topic, confuses who I am, how old I am, where we are. I can see her frustration at trying to process and understand what is said to her. There are long pauses and endless stilted silences. And there are so many rules around talking to a person who is trapped within their own mind. Never say “remember”, don’t say “you just said that”, or “you told me already / I told you already”, or “no, that never happened”. I sit and smile and rub her hand and nod and feel like I’m treating my strong, smart mother like a clueless child. Parentified in her youth and now infantilised in her old age.
During the bad moments the conversation is agonisingly restricted and circular. Like a goldfish swimming endless circles around an overly small bowl. Swim, swim, swim …. Oh wow! A rock! …. Swim, swim, swim ….. gosh! A plant! ….. swim, swim, swim …. Look! A rock! …… Even worse is when there is no sound. Mum sits or lies, mostly lies, and stares off into a distance no one else can see. Her lips vibrate, her eyes flicker, her fingers tap together; those seem to be reflexive movements of a body whose mind is both kilometres and decades away. When this happens, I wonder where she is, what memory or dream her mind is playing on its internal screen. Is she happy or sad in there? Sometimes tears run down her face; she doesn’t; cry or sob but the tears run freely and unchecked. If you ask her what is wrong, she doesn’t know, doesn’t realise she is crying.
Mum knows she has dementia, knows what that means. She tells me her mind is “all messed up” and she feels lazy and worthless. She wants to get control of her thoughts back, wants to DO things but doesn’t know how to take the first step. She wants me to tell her (boss her) and make her do things; I can’t tell her how many times I have tried. That Dad tries every day. There are so many diseases that turn the body against itself. Dementia is so much worse. When your brain attacks your mind, ripping and destroying and turning it into a tangle which is then locked inside.
I am scared for her. How hard it is for HER to fight her way to the here and now. How exhausting and terrifying and lonely that must be.
My Father
My father’s world has been turned upside down, shaken, set on fire and the ashes scattered in a storm. He is no longer an equal, a partner, a friend. Now he is a carer. Learning a new vocation, one no one would choose, as he neglects his own needs and wants to care for the woman, he has shared his life with for 60 years.
He can not leave her alone for long lest she needs him or believes she has been abandoned and forgotten. At times Mum resents the interests that steal some small part of Dad’s attention away from her. When she knows his thoughts are elsewhere or he is making arrangements that do not involve her. Then she can be childish and petulant. Her words lash at him to make him feel the pain she carries. Adults protect their loved ones from pain and hurt, children broadcast it until something is done to soothe them and make it go away.
Dad answers Mum’s questions, responds to her comments, explains what is happening and when and why. Over and over and over. He bites back his frustration when she accuses him of holding information from her, schools the expression on his face and the tone of his voice. Soothes, reassures, calms, loves. Above all, he loves.
Dad spends most of his waking hours sitting close by, not so close that Mum might think he is hovering or interfering, but always there when she needs him. He reads and writes and keeps busy, but mostly he keeps watch. Ready to answer her questions, fetch what she needs, help her move to another spot. Dad is a vibrating bundle of suppressed energy, when I’m there I can feel it coming off him. Always on edge and never at rest. He also wants to go out, to see, to converse, to learn, to teach, to laugh. But he stays. Every hour of every day he chooses to stay.
Dad is the strongest, bravest person I know.
Me
I rage at how unfair all of this is. Mum and Dad have lived their lives for others. Both have worked hard since childhood. They gave my brothers and I the very best lives and have done their all to make sure our children enjoy the same. These years of retirement should be about THEM. Living in peace and harmony, pursuing their interests and spending time with one another and family. The first few years of retirement were like that, but now it has become a prison for them both. The iron chains of dementia keep them isolated, even from one another.
It is s unfair for anyone to spend the last years of their lives tortured by mental decline and self-diminishment. It is unfair that anyone must watch a person they love turn inward and become lost in the tangled web of disease that withers their brain. And I am angry! Angry that such a hideous disease should even exist. Angry that science has extended the quantity of our years but can’t maintain the quality of the lives we live in them.
I am ashamed to admit, I am also so, so angry at my mother. The life she has led in the years after her retirement are a “How not to avoid dementia” handbook. No social interactions (she even stopped talking on the phone), no exercise, bad diet. One by one she dropped her activities and hobbies. The piano which we had since forever was packed up and given away, the sewing machine sits dusty and the books are unread. She stopped driving, gave up editing dad’s papers and articles, was no longer interested in the news or quiz shows. If I were granted one wish, I would go back 10 years and do my very best to divert her from the path she so blithely walked down.
I am angry at the rest of us, the immediate family. Myself and my brothers and my father. We let her make these choices and did little to dissuade her. Our family has always been about respect, accepting that the others have the right to make their own choices. Even if we don’t agree. Mum and Dad have always been a team, united, synergy. So forcing choices on mum is not something any of us would have done, it’s not something any of us feel happy about now. Maybe nothing would change, but maybe I would also feel that at least I tried.
For now, we have a lifetime of memories to share and preserve. As many quiet talks, hugs, held hands as we can. Some memories still to make. I have heard of dementia being called The Long Goodbye. Saying goodbye to our loved ones one small piece at a time as the portals between their mind and the world close.
I love you, Mum. You ….. the amazing, complicated, kind, loving, brave, intelligent, hilarious woman I know as my mother …. You will be always in my heart.
Estelle.
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The moon is a ghostly galleon

Thinking about the future.
These days
I give scant thought to thinking about the past,
It’s challenges, celebrations, defeats, victories,
The despair and euphoria, the downs and ups, the lows and highs.,
That have been part of the hours, days, weeks, months, decades and scores,
Of time traversed.
They are there but dimly
As I contemplate what lies ahead
Around the next corner
Along the road ahead.
I cannot see
But visualise
The foreboding of tomorrow.
What would you do if you won the lottery?
Give it to all my children and grandchildren to help them on their journey through life’s world.
Yes, I am still alive

If I don’t respond, I am presumed to be dead and no longer entitled to concessions you only get if alive.
Will this man soon be leader of the opposition Liberal Party in Canberra?

GO ANGUS, OPPOSITION LEADER
Angus is a good man
And it is plain to see
That if he wins the Liberal spill
What a great leader he will be
He is a man of substance
With acute political brain
And as opposition leader
Will cause Albo substantial pain
On his feet in parliament
Acute questions will he ask
Forever keeping government focused on its tasks.
He is the person who could take
(And that is plain to see)
A. rejuvenated coalition
To electoral victory!
MY COMMENT ‘THE AUSTRALIAN’ WOULD NOT PRINT
COMMENT ON AUSTRALIAN OF THE YEAR 2021 GRACE TAME’S TANT OVER THE RIGHTS OF INTERFADA AT RALLY PROTESTING ISRAELI PRESIDENT HERTOG’S VISIT TO ASUSTRALIA FLLOWING BONDI MASSACRE.
What a let down. What a slight on Australia. What an awful demonstration on un-Australian conduct. What a sad example to young people
Alcohol is a scourge in the Northern Territory
The Northern Territory is more aptly expressed as the Alcohol Territory.
The costs associated with alcohol both monetarily and domestically are astronomical.
Dementia Funding must not be curtailed
As the carer for a dementia patient I confirm absolutely the integral and important role filled in supporting people suffering from dementia, by the Northern Territory Memory Clinic situated in the Casuarina Plaza Building.
At the moment the Memory Clinic has a staff quotient of one full-time Doctor, 1.5 trained and practice nursing staff and some clerical support. The Dementia program in the Northern Territory, including the Memory Clinic, is fully funded by the Commonwealth Government in Canberra. No contribution is made to these important programs by the Northern Territory Government.
I have been given to understand on good authority that from 1 July 2026, Commonwealth funding for Dementia programs in the northern territory will impact upon the Memory Clinic in a very negative fashion. The full-time doctors position will be reduced to a .5 position. The 1.5 nursing positions will reduce to one position only. I believe also the clerical support will be curtailed
If this is the case, then I am very alarmed for the consequences that will flow and the support that will be lost to people desperately needing support.
Currently, the waiting time for attention at the Memory Clinic after referral is around six months. That cannot be extended to a period of even further delay.
Either the Commonwealth government must be persuaded to increase and not decrease funding; in the alternative the Northern Territory Government through its Health Budget needs to provide financial support for this critically important support program.
Dream Home
Home is where the heart is.
This place is our dream home. It has been for almost 40 years.
Buffalo Creek and beach area on Darwin’s outskirts





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Uluṟu in the rain

A beautiful simple meal

I thank Nigella Lawson for inspiring me to explore the culinary delights of life.
The NT Assembly
Very few sitting days every year

Hard
It is hard to be happy.
Getting hard to do things and make things
Hard to enjoy food
To plan meals
Hard to keep focussed
To fix on time and timing
Hard not to want what we cannot have
Hard to get back what has gone.
The tried and careworn face of a very, VERY old man

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Thoughts from the Shadows – 11
- AI in replacing learning, creates cognitive vacuums in minds.
- Dementia slowly kills the crowns of family trees.
- The ‘system’ allows too many sick and elderly to be fleeced!
- Nursing homes are largely profit centered.
- In debate, focus on messages, not the messengers.
Sunset at Leanyer

Recovered at last


Old people are wise
I went to a gathering of old people today. I am an old person and like all old people I am a physical caricature of my formal self.
We might not be brilliant physical replicas but being with a lot of old contemporaries, I realised one thing.
We are wise.
We are also discounted.
And for doing that to us
Younger contemporaries who are full of themselves.
Are foolish.
Because they have to learn the hard way.
Reaction to great news!
- Run around in tight circles, arms out like aeroplane wings and pretending I am a plane landing at the Gibraltar Internstional Airport.
- Jump up and down like a Jack in the Box doing fourteen Toyota leaps.
- Singing the Pringle Song five times and at the top of my voice
- Having a drink of crystal clear water and calming down.
My favourite names
Hettie
Thomas
Bessie
Barney
Matilda
Dorcas
Percival
Edward
Goochie
Olive
Colin – Colsie
Lloyd – Lloyd Wilson
Lorna
Kerry
Dementia in Australia is growing like like a seven-headed Hydra
The dementia groups are the biggest and fastest growing in Australia where dementia is now the number one scourge. That said, it is downplayed and overlooked by Government big time.
AI … toward intellectual mediocrity
Recent reports on how AI is beginning to overwhelm academe and supplant students’ complete cognitive understanding fill me with deep unrest. Have a question or a problem? Ask AI. The clear and distinct danger is that people will make decisions without understanding WHY those outcomes are correct.
Years ago, our daughter passed Year 11 with distinction. Imagine our surprise when she asked to repeat Year 11. She explained that while excelling, she did not understand why she was succeeding; that something was missing within the cognitive equation and learning process. She repeated year eleven, gained the insights she had been missing earlier, was very successful in year 12, then went on to earn excellent tertiary qualifications in the fields of science and education.
Over-reliance on AI to provide solutions that are not in line with the questions asked will lead to an explosion of mediocrity in understanding among professionals and skilled workers. That will be a catastrophe.
It is one thing to give the correct answers and another to understand why.
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Interest wanes
I care for my wife
I love her
She has dementia
I care for her and try my best but doubt I do a good enough job.
These days when reflecting I cry a lot.
I have lost interest in me.
Were the care for my wife, whom I love dearly, not so imperative, then J would happily depart this world.
Who is hero worshiped more than any other person in the world?
Donald Trump
He is a colossus among mankind
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It was awful in Royal Darwin Hospital
My wife who has dementia, was admitted to RDH recently after spending 14 hours in ED.
She was admitted to a four-bed area in Ward 7a. This is the renal ward. She was in the ward for six days.
It was for her a horrible time of incessant bedlam and noise, shouting, demands of staff, patient resistance to staff effort and entreaty and unpredictable behaviour by patients 24/7.
She was not shifted to a more suitable situation and when discharged it was without her medications which ‘caught up’ when collected 18 hours later. I visited every day from 10.00 am until 7.00 pm when visiting hours finished.
It took Margo three days to start resetting and for her the whole experience set her back – all without her major medical matters being finalised.
Note please that my concerns are NOT about staff and care but rather that a particular patient cohort is able to demand so much time and attention often generating from awful to behaviour. The week was one of the very worst we have ever experienced.
Tree lopper at work


A goose on the roof of the House of Pete

This picture is worth 1,000 words

Yo Yo
The stock market.
Consequences of government policies.
The product of education.
Sports form.
Socio/economic relationships.
Marital bliss.
Weather and climate outcomes.
Personal ambition.
Certainties of the days ahead.
Henry today
A flat tack
A burst balloon
Weeping eyes
Sad reminiscences
Punctured motivation
Stale and dull head
Deepening hopelessness
Envelopment in the quicksand of despair.
Two countries indelibly linked by great leaders



I need a break
It is getting down to the pointy end of my life. I am 80 this month. They can say what they like and pooh, pooh the notion of age until the cows come home – but I am old and the more I reflect upon the future, the more uncertain and precipitous the world seems to have become.
On my birthday, February 24 2022, the most recent chapter of the Russian War on Ukraine started. I was 76.
Should I live to 81, on 24 February 2026, that conflict will be entering its fifth year. By then China will be in effect en route to Taiwan while the Middle East will be wracked and largely wrecked by conflict.
The world is tearing itself apart.
I feel my vitality withering on the vine of life starved of moisture and feel my spirit drying up inside. I am increasingly overcome by the thickening veil of hopelessness and the world is closing in on me.
I often wonder how far I am from a break: The break that comes at the end of life’s cycle.
Anyone for soccer


Three year turnaround time


Our Granddaughter is turning 20

Over 7,000 Australians have exercised the right to die

Our backyard in the early morning hours

Frequent visitors to our backyard

Possibility/Probability
Never … but you never know
- There is a possibility and a 60% probability that only 14 people in the world remain unimpaired by the Geoffrey Epstein files revelations.
- There is a possibility and a very small probability that Vladimir Putin regrets his tilt at Ukraine.
- There is a possibility and a remote probability that Benjamin Netanyahu and the Ayatollah Khomeini will break bread together.
Tourists crowd into NT

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Living a long life
I have.
And now
I am
Tunnelled into
Darkness
With most
Behind
And little
Ahead.
“PETE”

All Askew
My life,
Feels like the turning point
Of a corkscrew.
Guided by an uncaring hand,
Burning and burying me every deeper,
Into the mass,
And growing density,
Of an unknown substance.
Deeper
And faster,
Turns the hand,
Until the unbearable heat,
Sears deep into the tissues,
Of my mind and inner psyche,
Ripping tearing renting me into fragmentation,
Ceaselessly unendingly until I am reduced,
To a blubbering apology,
Of human wreckage.
Thoughts from the Shadows – 10
- Most inquiries/commissions are reported then archived/lost.
- Dementia is like incurable cancer, slowly and excruciatingly squeezing and dragging you down.
- Govt policy is shaped by emotion not rational economic logic.
- Life has become an albatross around my neck.
- Old age is increasingly like an abomination.
TEACHING IS NOW A DISASTROUS PROFESSION
In the classroom
In the yard,
2026 teaching
It’s so hard,
KPI’s are all the go,
“And what would teachers
REALLY know”,
Cheeky kids
Who have no care,
Deliberately wilful,
Tear at the hair,
The very soul,
Of every teacher,
Now treated like,
Some nasty creature,
Give it up
‘Tis the only way
It’s gone to pot
Says Henry Gray
This satay cost $A 7.50 and was a great disappointment.

The most ideal day
It is hard to go past the days leading to my retirement in December 2011 after 20 years at Leanyer School. They were days and weeks of nostalgia and reflection, of challenge and celebration. In so many ways, never better.
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The moon

Tossed upon storm crossed seas
My life’s predictions about this world’s future were set decades ago – and it has come to pass

That is the way it is. All true.
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ALL CHILDREN ARE EQUAL AND DESERVE OUR RESPECT
A friend of mine raises a question we should all consider.
I agree with and share her concern
Hello😊
Wouldn’t it be nice if parents actually taught their kids that we’re not all the same and that it’s actually ok to be different. Children with special needs are not strange!
They want what everyone else wants, to be accepted and happy!!!
How about it
Sharing the Joy of an exciting volunteer opportunity.
THIS COULD BE FOR YOU
Come and help us stage Australia’s premier cultural event!
Volunteer applications for the 2026 Garma Festival open on Monday 16 February, through GoodCompany.
We’re looking for energetic and enthusiastic people to assist with transportation, ticketing and reception, merchandise, campsite infrastructure and operations, site management, administration and more.
You will also be helping the crew to set up and pack down the site before and after the event, so physical work is involved.
Volunteers need to organise and fund their own travel arrangements to and from Nhulunbuy, and be available to arrive on Saturday 25 July, and depart on Wednesday 5 August. You must be available for all 11 days.
You will also need to do a criminal history check, and obtain a clearance to work with children from NT Worksafe.
Come and join an incredible team of like-minded individuals for an experience like no other. Applications close on Tuesday 31 March.
Stay tuned for more information 🔊
Pic: Peter Eve ~ Yothu Yindi Foundation
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Who offers hope to a world drowning in the suffocating essence of totalitarianism?
Donald Trump
One of the bravest, caring and conscientious leaders the free world has ever known.
He is minded a model of mankind.
Who is like the snow plough cutting through the deepest blizzard, restoring feelings of confidence that the foulest of weather will soon pass.
Donald Trump
The restorer and rebuilder of America, the cater abd the protector of all that is dear to the heart of every patriotic American, the man whose pure and faultless example relights the flame of hope in each spirit and revamps every soul.
Which world leader causes Poor Old Henry to melt before his persona and power.
Donald Trump.
When I think of Donald Trump, I feel like putty in his hands, to be moulded and shaped by his greatness.
Tomorrow’s news today

The Leanyer Newsagent’s joke board this week

Thoughts from the Shadows – 9
- In patient communication with patients almost non-existent.
- Frenetic hospital pace/ movement masks underpinning inertia.
- Focus on “race” denies socio/economic changes so necessary.
- NDIS offers a profit feast for many providers.
- Dementia is frankenstinian sucking the blood out of life.
Distant indeed on the to do list
I never achieve peace of mind.
I never feel good
The closer I get to the end the more I am disquieted about what the world holds in store for our children and grandchildren.
I never feel people will ever learn from the past.
Gala Awards – their main features
Blind exhibitionism
Puerile self promotion
Shameless flaunting
Foolish utterances
“Me” in lights
My favourite thing to cook is sausages – big THICK sausages.
You can eat them whole or do something like this for a yummmmmmy snack
Sausages can be part of quality sandwiches



Turbulent waters and strong winds at Lee Point



Thoughts from the Shadows – 8
- 4 Phases – usually You: Get born, grow up, get old, die.
- One Nation rising as Coalition fades into history’s penumbra.
- Expectations can be blasted asunder in the blink of an eye.
- Collegiality and care are discounted values. It’s ’I myself’
- Constant vigilance is a ‘must’ for dementia carers.
Thoughts from the Shadows – 7
- Dementia reduces living to existing.
- Process and procedure stifle common-sense outcomes.
- Spoken words are often false, betraying thinking on issues.
- Alas, the dementia mind wanders aimlessly in time and space.
- Asking for ‘sorry’ apologies is farcical, almost a gimmick!
Optus Stadium – “The Craypot” – in Perth


Magpie Geese come visiting Poor Old Henry


ANNE RUSHTON HAS A DREAM
The Shadow Health Minister said that the Liberal Party could win a Federal Election on its own and without the support of any other party.
Not a chance.
A snowball lasting in hell would stand a better chance than the Liberals being successful in solo terms.
NOW THIS I DO NOT – NOT – BELIEVE

Selfish beyond extreme
Except for a few standout players like Ashleigh Barty, Alex de Minaur and Naomi Osaka, tennis is made up of exceptionally self centred, selfish and opinionated players.
After six days of earthly preoccupation


WEEKEND OR WEEKDAY – the news is always downcast.

Dismal always downcast . 
RDH ED – SHUDDER TIME
The Emergency Department of the Royal Darwin Hospital is the scariest place in the world to visit.
I would and do go only IN THE MOST DIRE OF CIRCUMSTANCES. It is awful with the time taken to have matters attended often taking until the next day.
The place is often overrun by impossible patient behaviour with those shouting the loudest deemed to be ‘priority’, meaning that others are pushed down the queue and sometimes all but forgotten.
Not good – well that is more than an understatement!
Ferocious, Fierce, Tropical windblown rain tumbling on the Karama Shopping Centre this afternoon




VERY IMPORTANT PEOPLE STEPPING IT OUT
PM, VC AND SENTATE MEMBER FOR LINGARI

On a mission for the betterment of the Northern Territory. How blessed we are to have the university, in many respects, marching forward, onward and upward. Dogged determination and fierce positive purpose in every stride.
OUR FRON FENCE CROTONS BASKING IN SUNSET LIGHT


LEANYER RAINBOW AT SUNSET


Finally Discharged – An Ordeal Ends
My wife was discharged from Royal Darwin Hospital late yesterday afternoon after six of the worst days of our lives. It was exhausting, draining, and quite awful for someone who, as a patient, does not yell, scream, remonstrate with staff and incessantly demand attention.
When we arrived home, both of us were so drained and exhausted that we collapsed on our bed, and that has been it for the past 12 or 13 hours.
I have learned a lot about medical management in the past week, and very little of it has done anything other than make me shudder.
Royal Darwin Hospital
Is like into a slow moving and heavily laden goods train with length so long that it is frequently derailed.
When is sometimes so far away that one gets lost in the eons of waiting.
The words ‘express’ and ‘priority’ are distant to all aspects of the hospital other than the emergency department.
An owl called Pink

Too WhoO
Naughty Mouse
I will eat you
WHY QUESTIONS On Indigenous Issues
These are questions I have asked in various forums from time to time. I have asked them about those who post on LinkedIn. Often, I hear nothing back from those to whom I have replied, with those replies being a response to people who decry the fact that the treatment of and regard Indigenous Australians is insensitive and harmful.
The strong inference is always that fixing the issues has to come from the government, agencies, or a change in attitude by those held accountable by writers.
In this context, my questions were pertinent to ‘The Voice’. There was an assumption that if the Voice was passed into our constitution by the referendum, then all the issues raised around the questions I had – and still have – would somehow be corrected: That without the Voice, there could be no fixing.
I was involved with Aboriginal Education in both WA (1970, 1974/75) and the NT (1975 – 82) as a school leader. With staff, I initiated many programs that greatly benefit children of young ages. I worked to ensure school attendance and had the support of communities.
I have also undertaken formal studies in the field of Indigenous Education.
I add this chronology to point out that my questions are not from someone unaware.
- Why are parents and primary caregivers not looking after their children? Why are parents and caregivers excused from the m looking after their children?
- Why are Elders now apparently powerless when it comes to the management of children and youth within communities?
- Why are non-Indigenous persons deemed wholly responsible for issues about the health and welfare of Indigenous youth and adults?
- Why don’t people take responsibility for their health; why do they blame the health department and other agencies for poor health and illness when a great deal comes from their chosen behaviours? mn
- Why are parents and caregivers not responsible for ensuring their children attend school?
- Why are teachers and the education department blamed when children leave school as functional illiterates when that has been and is the result of them not attending school?
- Why is it deemed racist when issues are raised, and the need for self-responsibility is pointed back to families from where the problems arise?
- Why do some mothers in our country who are pregnant drink alcohol while pregnant, with this leading to FASD issues?
- Why are Indigenous people coming into towns from communities not responsible for their accommodation?
- What happens to those who are victims of crime when it comes to damaged premises, stolen cars and so on?
- Is the need for welfare support occasioned by the expenditure priorities of parents and caregivers who should be providing for children?
- What should happen in the many cases of children and young people roaming the streets and getting into trouble because they feel unsafe at home?
- If agencies take children from unsafe homes, are they not faced with ‘double jeopardy’ because of accusations of stealing children from parents?
- Are responsibilities that should belong to parents being passed to government instrumentalities, with parents and caregivers shrugging and inferring that various government agencies should pick up their commitment?
- Should ANY responsibility for the upbringing of children belong to parents?
- Why is the role parents should play in raising their children at best infrequently raised; are parents excused from any responsibility?
- Do many young people act disruptively because they feel a sense of entitlement because Australia is a country where its First Peoples were first? Do they feel ‘owed’ by being ‘first’?
Is the Darwin Private Hospital on its last legs?
Seems like it could well be!
Services reducing.
They seem to be keeping its future under wraps.
The West Wing



If I won the lottery!!
I would buy a hospital where patients could recover in peace and quiet, rather than being subject to the constant babble of noise and disquiet that is a part of hospitals these days.
Hospitalisation these days is closer to hell than to healing.
Royal Darwin Hospital



A bird feast this morning at the House of Pete





The logic of the greatest man ever to lead the greatest nation on earth.

How quickly a colony emerges, grows, withers and dies.



What might reunite an increasingly divided Australia ?

Bill Smith a symbolic Australian name
Commentator.
Considerer of agrarian practices.
Carving out an agricultural career at Rocky Gully.
Proud sponsor of Edward Kynaston the founder of “thinking aloud”.
A mentor, pariah, example and great Australian bloke.
What would you do if you won the lottery?
I am a very old man.
I would give it all to some aged care mogul to guarantee space and care in one of his aged care homes in exchange for meals and accomodation until I went dead.
AA … Australia’s handsome and ruggedly postured Prime Minister

Booku, Booku, Banyak – Booku Booku
Books – lots of books but the ones I want to read:
Australian History by Tony Abbott.
The Machinations about Daniel Andrew’s.
Mark Motlop by Grey Morris.
The Never-ending, Everlasting Ascension of Donald Trump.
Together as one: The Bonding of Vladimir Putin and Vlodomiya Zelenski
Crook
Things are bad
Things are crook
I’m all over the place
A mental sook
Out of kilter
Out of whack
If still working
I’d be for the sack
I wonder if
I have been fated
Forever to be
Discombobulated.
THE NATION AS ONE
One Nation on the upswing – and building on a strong foundation
Which is our flag?

Who is the most inspiring person in the world?
Donald Trump
Family Traditions
Being good
Sinning Not
Honouring parents and elders
Listening to each other
Respecting those who are younger
Focussing on values.
Who is feeling frazzled and discombobulated on this Austealis Day?
Me
Poor Old Henry.
I
Am all over the place
My
Thinking is confused
By
Life Circumstances.
Over my head
I sense the Sword of Damocles
Hanging
With the sharpest of points
Suspended
By this thinnest of threads.
In the event of his passing, which world leader is, in all likelihood, to have arranged to be cryopreserved in order to test the theory of resurrection at some future time?
Vladimir Putin.
When will Russia seek peace with Ukraine?
Never.
When will the intense summer heat gripping huge areas of Australia, dissipate?
The year after next.
What voters have joined

Suburban Housing 2026 style

Sunday lunch at Royal Darwin Hospital


At 12.01 am eight hours after ED RDH admission and still waiting


What communication strategy is employed by staff at RDH
The Shout Theory
What business is exponentially blessed by its proximity to the Royal Darwin Hospital?
The nearby cafe, restaurant and take away food shop,
Truth or lie?

