My granddaughter has a function to attend this evening, as he is shortlisted for an award in creative writing.

Coming from a feeling remote corner of the Northern Territory, she must shop for Clothing and accessories to wear to the function this evening.

Now I am her old grandfather and I am with her if she looks at what she wants and makes a selection for this evening.

It is important and I am remembering that what she gets  It’s for her to wear, not me.

I am supportive, and can offer suggestions but in no way must I dictate what she chooses to wear.

Grandparents should be there for their grandchildren, but should not get in their faces.