1. Regular contact and conversations with our children and grandchildren.

2. Reflections with my wife on our 55 years of marriage and how our lives and those of our children and grandchildren have unfolded.

3. How many birds come to our birdbath and from the feed we provide.

4. Reflecting on our rich personal and professional history, including the way we lived and worked in places we have been.

5. Appreciating the fact that we can live private and individual lives and that to date we have enjoyed reasonable health.