Is it OK for authorities to condone poor behavioural conduct from one group within the wider community, while disallowing it for everyone else?
In general, it is not considered acceptable for authorities to condone poor behavioral conduct from one group while disallowing it for others. Such a practice can lead to perceptions of bias, inequality, and unfairness, which can undermine trust in institutions and the rule of law.
Fairness and equality before the law are fundamental principles in democratic societies. When authorities apply rules or standards inconsistently, it can create divisions within the community and may lead to feelings of resentment or injustice among those who are held to different standards.
Authorities are typically expected to enforce laws and regulations impartially, ensuring that all individuals and groups are treated equally. If there are specific circumstances that warrant different treatment, those should be clearly communicated and justified to maintain transparency and public trust. Otherwise, perceived double standards can lead to social unrest and a breakdown in community relations.
About that perceived double standard. I wish we had some way to adjust to the speed of modern life. It looks to me like the significant polarization of our country leads to claims of unfair depending on the point of view.