RELIGION – A FADED PRACTICE

Do you practice religion?

PRACTISING RELIGION

Brought up as a young person in a religiously inclined home, I practised religion and felt myself to be affiliated with a particular church followed by my parents during my formative years. That continued into my early teens and really up until I turned 20. Within my church I served as a lay preacher, are used leader, a person who participated in running Fake-ation Bible Schools for young people in our hometown and so on.

Not so long after I turn 20, I was appointed as a delegate to the State Conference held each year by our church. during that conference I was astounded to learn that money operation as in all churches belonging to this group were regularly asked to give, and give until it hurt, was not being used for the furtherance of the work but rather by the church leaders to amass assets. These assets included the purchase of property for investment and so on.

I asked questions at the conference of our leaders and those who were there as delegates. I was it that we were being urged to give money to further the churches work within Australia and overseas, when investment and by implication bank balances seem to be the important thing and the way that money was being directed.

In response to my questioning I was more or less told to “mind my own business”. Decisions impacting upon the church were made by people in positions of authority and it was not my right to question the propriety of what they did.

For me, being involved with organised religion and the visibly practising Christian began to cease at that point in time. I remind affiliated with the church only to satisfy my parents. That made me feel somewhat hypocritical because what I was on the outside was not how I felt about religion on the inside.

With the passing of time I disaffiliated from the church and from organised religion and that remains the case to this day. I have however tried very hard throughout my life to live in a decent and principled way and to help others per my mission statement which I will re-list at the end of this response.

For a long time after my severance from religious formalities church practices I felt guilty about what I done and felt that I had somewhat apostatised. Some years, in fact decades past and I wrote a letter to my parents, who felt guilty about my departure from the faith, to point out that they had not failed me – that I had made my own decisions about the church and religious affiliation. I hope when they passed it wasn’t with the feeling of guilt that they had misguided me in someway.

It was about going back to that conference and considering the priority is the church exposed and the practices (it seemed to me) in which the church engaged.

My parents had wanted me to train as a minister and become a pastor of the church. That of course never happened.

However, I think that my life as a teacher, educational leader and a person working with others has enabled me to fill the work I’ve done with the same (hopefully) positive outcomes for them (and myself) that would have ever been achieved had I followed my parent’s occupational wishes.

LIFE BEFORE THE INTERNET

Do you remember life before the internet?

Life before the internet

I am 77. Born in 1946, I could write a tome about pre-internet communication and interaction. For the moment two reflections will suffice.

The first example of difference relates to urgent communication pre-internet and pre-modern telephone communication.

Urgent messages were sent by telegram. The sender would go to a post office and pay two shillings and sixpence for a telegram of twelve words (maximum) including the name and address of the receiver. That is $2.85 in today’s currency.

The sending post office relayed the message via phone to the post office nearest to where the message recipient lived. The message was hand copied onto a telegram form, placed into an envelope, and given to a post office junior who delivered it, usually on a bicycle to the recipient.

This process was the way urgent messages were transmitted from sender to receiver for decades.

I am drawing on personal experience to illustrate the second instance of life before the internet.

In 1972 and 1973, I earned extra money by reporting on football and basketball for a country newspaper printed – linotype printing – in Perrh each Wednesday for distribution on Thursday and Friday.

Football was played on Sundays. I had to round up the details of the games played at four different locations, type up my report on an Olivetti typewriter, drive it 25 kilometres to a pick-up point and give it to the driver of a road transport bus for delivery on Tuesday morning to the newspaper office for inclusion in the paper’s sports pages.

The Internet has made what were elongated and complex communications processes, so much simpler and easier to manage.

GOTTA BE GOOD AT SOMETHING

GOTTA BE GOOD AT SOMETHING

I WASN’T GOOD AT

On the Farm as a Child

Extracting double-gee plants and seeds from growing wheat crops.

Removing eggs from. Underneath clucky hens inmm laying nests.

Hand milking cows.

Crutching and doctoring flyblown sheep.

Eating vegetables prescribed by my Mother.

Wearing a hat for sun protection – and I have suffered!

Resisting spoonfulls of sugar from the sugar bowl.

Denying myself scoops of fat from the dripping tin in the Coolgardie safe.

Dedicating time to feeding and watering the fowls.

Cutting heads off roosters being prepared for sale in our home town.

Sitting still in church.

Focussing on the study of mathematics, physics and chemistry.

As an Adult and Educator I wasn’t good at:

Accomodating Type B personality people.

Pretending agreement with policies with which I actively disagreed.

Having to take on staff members who were ‘gottabees’.

Having to acquiesce to ‘ascribed authority focussed’ superordinates.

Sloppily dressed members of staff.

Accepting system perogfatives to ‘water down’ expectations for some students.

Appreciating system and Australia-wide testing regimes.

Not sharing my school’s successes with media.

Being told in 1974 that I was over-educating indigenous children.

Lots more examples could be furnished; in fact many more hundreds of things at which I am not good could be listed.

A GOOD THING

One thing I believe myself to be good at doing is saying “sorry” when I’m wrong, learning from my mistakes, appreciating those who point out my weaknesses and improvements, and always striving to do my best.

Oops – that is four good things.

What are you good at?

HAVING IT ALL

What does “having it all” mean to you? Is it attainable?

Having it all

What is
Having it all
Accumulating assets,
Wanting, wanting,
Money,
Starting with cents,
Happy with a little,
But not for long,
Wanting,
Always wanting,
More and more and more,
Cents to dollars,
More and more and more,
Until the money bin is as full,
As Scrooge McDuck’s silo,
Build another, another, another,
But never ever is there enough,
The more breeds unhappiness,
Misery and despair ever enveloping,
The heart, the spirit,
Then the mind.

STOP,
Cease the downhill slide,
Immense wealth,
But nothing in the soul,
But emptiness.

REVERSE,
The trend,
Deprioritise the money,
Deprioritise your inner man,
Peace of mind,
Inward satisfaction,
Contentment with my lot.

THAT,
Is,
Having it all,
For every day,
Of life.






MALE TEACHERS ON THE ROAD TO EXTINCTION

Written for the International Principal’s Conference held in Norway in 1988. My paper was published on their website.

The situation has not really changed, other than having male teachers in percentage terms of the overall teaching force continuing to decline.

Gray – Male Teachers: The Road to Extinction
Henry Gray, Australia

Male teachers all over the world are a vanishing species. What has happened? What can be done to turn the situation around, and to increase the number of male teachers in our schools?

One of the most satisfying periods of my teaching career was at Nhulunbuy Primary School, at Gove, in North-East Arnhem Land, 650 kilometres east of Darwin. Until recently, this town of 4,200 people was accessible only by air. During my time of principalship (1983-1986), the school had an enrolment of 750 students, from Transition through to Year Seven. There were a further 90 children being readied for formal learning in our preschool.

The school had a staff of 52 teachers and ancillaries, which included nineteen male teachers (36% of our teaching staff). We men had our own Touch Football team, we made up almost all of one of the local cricket teams, and we were a major contributing force to local rugby league, basketball and other male-focused sport teams.

I didn’t appreciate it at the time, but a gender balance of that nature is a rarity. The ratio of male-to-female teachers in Australian primary schools these days is 1:27. At 1:9 in high schools, the situation is just a little better, but still, 90% of the staff are women. At Leanyer School, we are a staff of 38. Only five of us (13%) are male. There are some schools where the only male on staff is the janitor.

Where have all the male teachers gone, and why? Male primary teachers are an almost extinct species. Men in teacher training at all levels are rare. More and more qualified and practising male teachers are leaving for other apparently less stressful occupations.

Historical Reasons

There are historical reasons for the perceived unattractiveness of primary teaching to men. They centre on the perceptions of salary, status, community regard and an inherent idea that men working with children runs counter to the male psyche. The notion of ‘macho’ and the nurture of children seem somehow to be incongruent. This reasoning is somewhat mythical. Maybe it’s even ‘claptrap’! To hang the diminishment of the male teaching species on such ideas is illogical. But it does nothing to ease a very real situation, that there are now very few male teachers, particularly in primary schools.

Men Under Siege

I have no doubt that male teachers in primary schools are under siege. Along with fellow colleagues, I study the media’s coverage of our profession. While the media is interpretative, and accuracy sometimes skewed, it still reflects the perceptions generally held by society of social institutions and its managers.

Diet of Male Dysfunctionalism

The community at large is fed a bountiful print, radio and TV diet of stories about male teacher dysfunctionalism. There has been, and continues to be, a plethora of stories alleging interference with, and abuse of, children by male teachers. Sadly, some instances of infringement and violation against children and students are proven in courts. However, a significant percentage of allegations leading to court action are found to be baseless.

For those who have been tried, ‘legal’ acquittal does not negate the associated moral perception and social indignation. Those found ‘not guilty’ by courts and those who never go to court because charges are dropped, are left feeling tainted. In the minds of the wrongfully accused, the damage to their reputations is everlasting.

Children and students are increasingly aware of their rights to care and protection. ‘Stranger danger’, the ‘Kid’s Helpline’ and similar strategies are filling what, historically, has been an information void. It’s important that children do understand their rights and the respect that is due to them. Information from student disclosures, however, needs to be carefully checked before action is taken. If the information offered is accepted without verification, with allegations subsequently found to be untrue, then the accused is violated.

The Need for Human Warmth

Male teachers face a real dilemma. It’s no secret that primary children, particularly younger ones, often seek to be physically close to their teachers. Gripping the hands of teachers, giving teachers cuddles, wanting to sit on teachers’ laps are manifestations of this deep-seated human need. Female teachers seem to be less at risk in this situation than males. Males may want to respond to children with humanity warmth and empathy, but are warned off by a deep societal frown.

By contrast, middle-aged female teachers are often regarded in a ‘grandmotherly’ way. It seems somehow much more socially acceptable for them to respond to the affection of children. A male teacher of the same age has to be much more circumspect, lest his actions be interpreted as those of a ‘dirty old man’.

The challenge is increasingly exacerbated by the phenomena of single parent families. Single mothers often ask that, if possible, their children be placed with a male teacher, for the sake of masculine role modeling. The scenario can become one that creates an acute conflict within the mind of the male teacher.

The Future for Male Teachers Is Not Rosy

There is an increasing focus on male teacher vulnerability but tackling the issue has been, at best, oblique. Deflecting the issue is no way of handling its challenge. At some stage – hopefully sooner rather than later – a considered response to the issue by senior managers will be necessary. Ignoring the situation won’t make it go away. In an age where litigation is increasingly common, the threat to male teacher integrity is likely to become more pronounced.

There are many factors that impinge on the issue of school staffing. Conversations with teachers reveal that the tension of being a vulnerable group weighs heavily on the minds of remaining male educators

The problem of the male teacher shortage is one that may rapidly worsen in the near future, given the ageing teaching profession and the imminent retirement of large number of existing male teachers. Unless something is done, primary schools will soon be staffed almost entirely by women. Do readers have any suggestions about how this problem can be solved?

CONVERSATION CRITICALLY NEEDED

Who would you like to talk to soon?

CONVERSATION NECESSARY

I would welcome the opportunity to talk soon. Not to one individual but the whole of the Northern Territory Government Cabinet. I would also like to include our Department of Education’s Chief Executive Officer together with the heads of sub-departments.

Sadly, that conversation will never become a reality and will remain a wish to happen in my head.

The reason I would like to talk with these people is to ask them to reflect upon the past. Look in the rear vision mirror where the Northern Territory Government and Education have come from.

Life and organisation are all about the past, the present, and the future. I do believe that informing what happens in “the President” should take into account what has happened in “the past”. However, they do sell them the case.

Policies and processes defined as “new“are often far from that. They are, in essence, revisiting what has happened in previous years, been implemented and then discarded because of problems. A lot of the new policies coming into vogue (and this has happened over time) are simply revisitations of what has been trialled and then discarded.

This on-again, off-again, on-again, off-again, on-again is tantamount by to revisiting the wheel with organisations including the government, going around in circles. I’m not saying that we don’t need to move forward – we do! But in moving forward we need to take account of what has gone before.

I would very much like to talk with the people nominated, in order to point out numerous instances of revisitation based upon the above methodologies since the 1970s the 1990s.

But as I said, that conversation will never take place because nobody in high places is interested in thinking about past successes and failures: Through trial and error they would prefer to find out for themselves.

THE A5 FILE OF MEMORIES

What personal belongings do you hold most dear?

PRECIOUS POSSESSION

Over the years one accumulates a lot of material and many possessions. They all have value.

But in singling out just wanted to one in terms of my own personal self and not taking into account family (the most precious of all associations in life), my most precious possession would have to be an A5 folder containing plastic sleeves in which materials can be placed.

In that folder I have copies of awards, appreciations, academic records, life memberships, and several photos remembering particular events of importance throughout my life.

It’s a simple folder and one in which I store precious memories. From time to time I take this folder go through it and reflect upon its contents.

Self-reflection in a private way is important and this folder with its contents is my reference point for these reflections.

ALICE SPRINGS – WHERE TO NOW

ALICE SPRINGS DILEMMA

The issues of Alice Springs are beyond party politics.

Several key events in Alice Springs this year, including a motocross derby, the Caravaners conference and the NT Cattlemen/Women’s Association conference, were moved to other venues.

Because crime is uncontrollable and rampant, the light festival crowd is down.

Organisers of the Finke Desert Race fear a drop in visitor numbers.

The Central Australian Football League communities competition, generally held on Alice Springs ovals, has been put off because the city council feels the numbers coming from communities into Alice will add to crime problems already tearing at the city each night.

Bipartisanship and a common approach to overcoming issues confronting a community under siege is the only way forward. The need for action, applied without fear or favour, is now.

HENRY THE BOWER BIRD

Do you have any collections?

THE BOWER BIRD

Metaphorically speaking, when it comes to collecting and collections, I am a bit like a bower bird. I hang onto things for a long, long time and create frustration in others when I won’t tidy up, throw out, or give away items that I have collected.

Among the collectables I have kept are the following:

All my annual diaries from 1970 onward – there is a gap here in there but they’re mostly intact.

Copies of letters that I sent to people over the years as we were working in rural and remote parts of Western Australia and the Northern Territory. They are a good record.

The various trip diaries I compiled when we were travelling overseas and interstate.

Albums of coins, especially those appropriately cast for commemerative reasons.

Chronicles of teaching and administrative materials that I acquired over the years, in order to assist others and also to stimulate writing on educational subjects, something I do in retirement.

Collections of slides and photographs of places that we have seen, worked in, and lived in, over the years. (These need to be converted).

In terms of collection I have given a great deal of material to the Northern Territory Archives, because as I get older it becomes of less used to me and if it’s not given a way where it may be useful for research purposes in years to come, it may well finish up at the rubbish tip when our house is cleared

out.

Copies of articles I have contributed to publications over many years. Included is the volume of 300 columns I wrote for the Northern Territory News in a weekly column “ Gray Matters” for nearly 6 years after my retirement. (I have never written for remuneration .)

I also have a great deal of material that is saved online, including photographs, written materials and so on.

I really use LinkedIn as a source where by written material is retained in a collectible manner.

I blog and have over 2000 pieces of written and .saved material.

Collectibles ultimately translate into a trove of quite wealthy information.

LEGACY ON ‘LEAVING’

What is the legacy you want to leave behind?

LEGACY ON LEAVING

I enjoy life, but I am a realist. As a 77-year-old man I know that I am on the downhill stretch, heading towards the sunset of life. At one stage as a younger person I used to be frightened about passing over, but that is no longer the case.

Life has four phases in terms of the mortal stage.

You get born.

You grow up.

You become old.

You go dead.

I am well aware of the phase of life I now occupy.

The overarching legacy of life that I want to be leaving behind, relate to the first aspect of my mission statement which reads “to fulfil and be fulfilled in organisational mode, family, work, recreation“. If my legacy is an affirmation of positive fulfilment of this position, I will be well satisfied. Those three elements (a tripod if you like) have been my focus and concentration for a very long time. I want to depart this mortal coil leaving behind memories and indeed a legacy so show that this checked it has been fulfilled.

I want people to remember Henry Gray as a person who was a man of integrity.

Finally, I want to be remembered as a person who “ worked with a smile in his heart“. I want to be remembered as somebody who enjoyed what he did and with that enjoyment lifted others up, helping them along pathways of life.

Leaving behind a lot of money and assets doesn’t worry me particularly, but I will die satisfied knowing that there is a reasonable asset base that can be drawn upon by our children and their children.

In short, when I go, I want to be remembered as a person who left the world or the areas of his involvement enhanced and enriched by his presence.

COLD WEATHER, GOOD WEATHER

How do you feel about cold weather?

COLD WEATHER

I love cold weather. Living in Darwin means that cold weather is often very scarce in terms of happening. Right now, this May, we are having some coolish nights, with the temperature getting down on two occasions to an overnight low of 17°. During the day, it rises into the low 30° area. What helps to make the cooler weather cool and keeps the maximum temperature during the day tolerable is the fact that the humidity is way down into the 20 and 30% mark.

The humidity is a real stifler, often making it seem hotter than it may well be. I survive the heat but much prefer the relative cold of the dry.

In 1996 June and July, my wife and I went to the UK for six or seven weeks. This was during a period of extended service leave. I wouldn’t say I liked cautions to ensure I wore enough warm clothes. When we were away, I never once put on a jumper; on a couple of occasions, of thick shirt but not a jumper.

We toured or visited all over England, from London up the East Coast to John-O-Groats in Scotland, across the top of Scotland including the Isle of Skye, then down the West Coast into Wales before finishing up in South West England at Lands End in Cornwall. We toured Ireland and spent several days on a narrowboat on the Midlands canal system.

And all the time without feeling cold.

How am I coping with Darwin’s ‘chill’ as winter begins to threaten Australia’s south? I am LOVING it.

BROKEN BONES NOT QUITE

Have you ever broken a bone?

BONES INTACT

Spinal curvature

Fortunately, to this stage of my life, I have managed to avoid any bone breaks. I have had a litany of medical issues over the years, but have managed to avoid broken bones.

I had what might well have been a near miss when I was about 10. My Dad was a wheat farmer and has just transitioned from bagged wheat to bulk harvesting.

He was moving out on the whole Dodge truck with a full week been on the back, the truck towing the auger that was used for ordering the wheat from the header into the bulk bin. I was in the bin which is full of wheat with my back to the cab of the truck, looking out over the auger.

Unbeknownst to me dad drove under a tree that had a hanging branch. It’s cleared the truck, but as the truck moved forward it caught me from behind. It came in contact with the back of my neck, tip me up and I fell out of the bin, more or less headfirst down onto the back of the tray of the truck and from there bounced into the hopper of the auger.

I was knocked out cold and did not come to for some distance.

But I got out of that was a terribly terribly stiff neck and a very sore back but fortunately nothing was broken. That may have been the cause of headaches I suffered for many years and I do have a curved spine in the upper regions of my back – which may or may not have been caused by the fall.

But broken bones – not to date.

BALANCE IS A NECESSITY

How do you balance work and home life?

A QUESTION OF BALANCE

Balancing home life and work life was always very important to me. I write in the past tense because I’ve been retired for 12 years. However, even in retirement, my postwork activities mustn’t take on a disproportionate significance.

In 1984, I developed a mission statement and this was during a leadership program. The top criteria reads as follows:

“To fulfil and be fulfilled in terms of family, work, and recreation.“ It was important to me to have a balance and I never would work – or tried not to – over and above the importance and significance of my family. This has certainly helped because as a family of five, we are very close together. Neither did I neglect work but it needed to be kept in its place. I am reminded of the fact as has always been that “nobody on their deathbed ever regretted not having spent more time at work.“ I got that from somewhere and it always stuck in my mind.

As a leader, I tried hard to convince staff that Balance in work-life terms was very very important. So to come I was recreation getting away from work and relaxing.

I always tried hard not to take Work home and was advantaged in that way because I never lived more than 3 km from my place of work. If it was necessary to go to work early or late then it was at my workplace that I operated. Taking Work home was something I avoided.

Balance in life is ever so important and priorities need to be carefully established. Once they have been set, they need to be maintained.

Getting the balance right was, is, and will continue to be important.

SACRIFICES PALE INTO INSIGNIFICANCE

What sacrifices have you made in life?

SACRIFICING

STUDY FOR WORK

As a teacher who became a principal, I desired to complete doctoral studies during my career.

I’ve done or completed several degrees at postgraduate and masters level and was Deadset keen to undertake a doctorate.

I was also a school principal and in that context became aware of the fact that a good number of my colleagues were taking time off work to complete study programs. Thinking the matter through, I decided it would be far better for me from the viewpoint of my job and my work with children, staff and community not to leave and undertake study because it just seemed unfair to those with whom I was working.

so I didn’t pursue doctoral studies and am not particularly sorry about that. What I had was a full-time professional life and what I did was to spend my time as a principal in my schools. I also worked around the school teaching children and getting to know them.

How happy I am in retirement to reflect upon my career. Part of that is to be glad that I took the course of action I did and prioritised my work over study.

As a corollary, I also sacrificed 106 weeks of accumulated sick leave when I retired. Some of my colleagues and others, approaching the end of their working lives, used to take time off for medical reasons and for basically cutting out The sick leave that was owed to them.

To my way of thinking that was not right and I was quite happy to sacrifice my 106 weeks of sick leave to stay the course in my school and work with students and community and of course staff.

Last evening, I was invested with an Order of Australia Medal for my services to Education. I felt ever so proud and humble in receiving that award and feel ever so blessed to have prioritised as I did – even though that meant the sacrifices I have described. Those sacrifices were nothing compared to the joy and satisfaction I got from my work.

USUALLY OLD… TODAY NEW

What’s the oldest things you’re wearing today?

USUALLY OLD

I usually wear very old clothes I like wearing old, years and years old, T-shirts shorts sand shoes socks and so on. But today May 19th 2023 and with license, I just wanted to turn this topic on to something that I wore for the very first time.

It’s also the first time in over 20 years that I have worn a full dress suit, white shirt, tie and the trimmings. I even had new shoes.

The occasion? Tonight along with 15 other Northern Territorians, I went to Government House to be invested with an Order of Australia Medal for services to Education.

My family was there with three children and one of our grandsons

It was a great night – but guess what? Tomorrow it will be back to the wearing of old clothes and the suit will be put away after dry cleaning, probably for another 20 years.

DON’T STRANGLE LEADERS

Are you a leader or a follower?

TYPE ‘B’s’ STRANGLE TYPE ‘A’s’

I identify as a leader, undoubtedly a leader and a person with a Type A personality. As a leader, I have tried very hard to generate motivate with others to also look at being Type A persons.

As a leader I can attest to the fact that there are followers – and there are followers! The latter is Type B personalities. Many are laid-back and easy-going and “she’ll be right mate” persons to the point of eternally frustrating and strangling Type A people like myself. You don’t know what to do with them you don’t know how to urge them forward and you think of them as being like unto

stubborn mules.

I like being a leader and I like people who with me forge progressively onward and upward. But the ones that drag their feet, dig in their heels, and won’t budge for quids. These are people who are frustrating to the point of making me want to scream at them to get good i

and do the right thing.

It’s not always easy to be a leader.

CHERRIES ARE TOPS

List your top 5 favorite fruits.

FIVE FAVOURITE FRUITS

There are lots of fruit types I do not like and cannot eat. Some of this is probably because it’s a child I was made to eat things I didn’t fancy and therefore, be imaginary or real, I developed an aversion to these fruits.

For several years now I have grown pawpaws from seed and give away the plants and the fruit from trees that I planted in our yard. There is no way that I would eat a pawpaw I just don’t fancy having a go at that particular fruit but others like it so I’m happy to grow them and give them away.

My five favourite fruits from fifths to first go like this:

In fifth place are Pink Lady apples.

Coming in fourth are champagne melons.

In third place are red watermelons.

Granny Smith comes second.

Way, way, WAY out in front are first grade – usually from Tasmania – cherries. In Darwin, the supply of first-grade cherries is infrequent. But I never stop looking out for my favourite fruit.

MAKE THAT CALL

What’s one small improvement you can make in your life?

A SMALL IMPROVEMENT NEEDED

I get frightened of making telephone calls. Putting off calls that need to be made, causes matters needing attention to pile up.

Reluctance to make calls is a weakness of character I need to overcome. This will help me to achieve more, more efficiently.

This is a change I need to make.

HE HELPED ME SO POSITIVELY

Share a story about someone who had a positive impact on your life.

Charlie CARTER NUMBER ONE

This particular assignment is one about which I have thought long and hard all day. There have been so many people who have supported and helped me throughout my life that separating them from each other and getting down to only one has been very difficult.

I thought back through the life I’ve had particularly my professional life which began in 1968.

Considering hundreds of people finally brought me down to the one person who I think is A great influence on the way I operated during the last 19 years of my professional life.

His name is Charlie Carter he was our Regional Superintendent for Education when I first came to Darwin.

Sadly, he is now deceased but what he did for me evoked eternal appreciation.

when I first took up the Principal Sheppard Leanyer School they were quite some people who were unhappy about how I started my leadership career at that school. They never came and talk to me but some of them went to Charlie Carter to talk to him, my boss, about me.

Charlie‘s response was to send me a handwritten note. He said in the note that he needed to talk to me about some concerns people had about my style of leadership. He wanted to meet away from the school. He wanted our meeting to be in a private venue and he wanted to talk to me about what people had been telling him.

I appreciated this greatly. We had a very worthwhile meeting. Mr Carter outlined the facts of the concerns that were held about me he did not criticise me but he allowed me to think things through in a way that would enable me to go forward in a corrective way.

I went away from that meeting and took on board his advice. Without a shadow of a doubt, his meeting with me in this way helped me through what became a 20-year career as principal of Leanyer School. I asked people in the aftermath of things to talk with me if they felt there were issues I could be doing differently and better. That invitation over the years was accepted and respectful relationships became the modus operandi between me, staff, parents, and students at Leanyer.

When Mr Carter died I spoke of my appreciation for what he had done for me at his funeral. This included my reading out the note he had written to me all those years ago.

I was blessed by this man who believed in helping me rather than pulling rank and giving me a hard time. He was a genuine, sincere, and committed colleague.

Yes, Charlie Carter is my number one influencer, who helped me in an uplifting manner.

WHAT FREEDOM

What does freedom mean to you?

‘ME FIRST’ PUBLIC FIGURES

The public figures I most disagree with and abhor, are those who use their positions for self-promotion over and above their roles in organisations they represent.

A desire for self-aggrandisement means that many public figures’ positions into which they are appointed or voted, are used to big-note themselves. By putting themselves first, they can and often diminish the organisations they work for or represent.

I have little respect for public figures who use organisations in this way. Unfortunately, many people prioritise themselves in this manner.

My respect is for those public figures who are there for others – being representatives true to the roles they fill.

FREEDOM’S JUST ANOTHER WORD …

“Freedoms just another word for nothing left to lose” – the words from the Kris Kristofferson’s song ‘Bobby McGee’ resonate with me in contemplating this question.

Once upon a time, people had personal privacy – perhaps the most valuable and unappreciated of freedoms. It was possible to be anonymous.

Fast forward to 2023 and the lack of privacy available to people makes George Orwell’s “1984” look quite insignificant by comparison with the amount of data that is now recorded on every one of us. Interestingly, there’s lots of talk and hyperbole about our right to privacy – but that’s just all talk; nothing is private and everything is now on file for everyone.

Whenever anyone wants to know about anybody it’s quite possible to get to that information quickly. Often, people who are being investigated have no clue whatsoever about what’s going on. The Internet and social media together with the clandestine operation of some organisations have stripped us of our privacy and exposed us to the world. I no longer worry about privacy because I know there is none.

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose: there is nothing left to lose because everybody can find out anything about anybody at any time.

Nothing left about privacy is all there is for me; so juxtapositionally that offers me freedom.

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“ME FIRST” PUBLIC FIGURES

What public figure do you disagree with the most?

‘ME FIRST’ PUBLIC FIGURES

The public figures I most disagree with and abhor, are those who use their positions for self-promotion over and above their roles in organisations they represent.

A desire for self-aggrandisement means that many public figures’ positions into which they are appointed or voted, are used to big-note themselves. By putting themselves first, they can and often diminish the organisations they work for or represent.

I have little respect for public figures who use organisations in this way. Unfortunately, many people prioritise themselves in this manner.

My respect is for those public figures who are there for others – being representatives true to the roles they fill.

ON THE WANE

What is your career plan?

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MY CAREER IS GOING DOWN

At this stage of my life, I’m not looking to advance my career because I’ve been there and done that and these are my wine down years. But reflecting upon the years that have gone I can remember being very ambitious, studying hard in circumstances that in the 1970s were not set up to support students who were studying remotely and all of that because I wanted to get on. I have a little folder an A5 size insert in which I keep reduced copies of academic studies certificates and various other pieces of memorabilia that were part and parcel of my career. I often look back on them and generally with fond memories.

I tried very hard not only to be a person who advanced my career, but did it for the good of my organisation and the people with whom I worked – making sure along the way that I did not neglect family or discount those who deserved to be respected.

With my career behind me, I do a lot of writing and publishing on my blog and LinkedIn. I try to share what I do with people who might find use in what I write.

My aim these days is to give back to organisations, mainly to education, because when I was young there were so many people who helped me along the way.

Now, it’s my turn! And that I guess is what my career these days is primarily about.

TWO SIDES TO PERFORMANCE

What was the last live performance you saw?

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TWO SIDES TO PERFORMANCE

this is a very open question that I am choosing to interpret differently.

The first is what you might call “theatre on stage in a defined Entertainment Centre“. It is a long time since I went to the theatre, and I have to think carefully back to 2011 when I witnessed as a proud school principal, one of my students receiving Australia Day Student Citizenship for being an exemplary and stand-out young person. I used to go to this function every year. Every year I was proud of our school’s nominee.

I have not been since 2011 because I retired with affected the end of that year.

My second response to the question is to confirm that rarely a day goes past for me in Darwin, when I am not aware of performances happening around our shopping centres, sometimes in our streets, featured on radio and television; and in fact being a part of daily life in each and every part of the Northern Territory, most particularly within our towns and cities.

Those performances include brawling, screeching and screaming, police and security people trying to control situations, The use of foul language,, pushing and pulling, the abusing of innocent bystanders by those who are aggrieved, and so on. These are the performances that I regularly see and unfortunately will continue to see into the future. Sadly, there have been deaths with innocent people being stabbed. Knives are now part of this visible manifestation.

The performances seen “live“ on television need to be included. They include police chases of stolen vehicles, ambulances tearing to accidents and then racing to the hospital with the injured people, some hurt in car accidents and others from fighting. Add smashed premises, usually in multiples each day, and pictures of litter and debris featuring on our screens. So many performances that I sometimes think that the only thing about which the Northern Territory can “show“, is the sadness and the aftermath of crime. As I said, these performances are a daily occurrence.

AN EYE ON THE COMMUNITY

What do you do to be involved in the community?

COMMUNITY INVOLVEMENT

I confess that in physical terms, and visible presence, my involvement with the community is a lot less than it used to be. There are reasons for that. One is that I am retired and getting closer and closer to the end of my septa Janarion years. The other is that with the onset of COVID-19 in 2020, my feeling of apprehension about going out and mixing with people grew exponentially.

So invisible terms I’m a lot less around the place and that used to be the case. I don’t go out very often only to shop and carry out essentials and always wear a mask keep physical distance and use hand lotion and white trolleys. Now people made me think all about that but so far touch wood I’ve avoided Covid.

I’ve also had all my injections but of course, they don’t prevent you from catching Covid.

So I’ve left the community physically and that remains my station in life to this day.

If there is one community activity with which I am engaged and that is the “Snap, Save and Send” program where one reports to local authorities things that are broken and wrong and need fixing. To that and I am very active and have become quite strong it’s a supporter of this program which includes sharing awareness of its existence with others.

That means my reporting leads to the fixing of potholes, the removal of excess vegetation from Roadside areas, the removal of graffiti from places upon which it has been plastered, the retrieval of shopping trolleys by the supermarkets when their misuse is reported and so on.

A BIG ONE DAY JOB

What’s a job you would like to do for just one day?

A ONE-DAY JOB

I am taking into account where I live, the huge and unrelenting spike in crime in the Northern Territory, and the fact that most crime or much of it anyway is caused by young people from 16 years and downward who steal vehicles, ram raid, use knives, and act in an aberrant and delinquent way.

Taking into account the fact that governments and authorities are happy to excuse this behaviour – or appear to be happy because consequences are trivialised and the outcomes of crimes magnified to victims, influence what I would like to do for one day.

For one day I would like to be the Director of Family Priorities. During this day I would require that all parents of all children under the age of 17 accept responsibility for what their offspring are up to, including responsibility for fixing damage and destruction that that behaviour is wreaking on the community.

Part of my role would be to require parents to take responsibility for the upset being caused in the community by their children and to the point where accountability sees them being punished for the neglect of their children. An element would be the banning for a lifetime of the rights of people who have these neglected children, to purchase or consume alcohol because that changes their priorities away from the children and toward the social upheaval that their offspring are causing.

Far too many parents are happy to prioritise alcohol over expenditure on food and accessories of life for their children. So the third change would be the loading of their support benefits onto a basics card. It could only be used to purchase the necessities of life.

What a job for the day.

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BRANDS COUNT

What are your favorite brands and why?

BRANDS THAT COUNT

There have been so many brands on so many products for so many gears in the life of this old man. It is hard to separate them from each other.

I’m going to bring it down to 3 brands that count.

The third for me is “ Darwin Lock and Key” They provide excellent service at a reasonable cost to people who need keys cut and they run an excellent emergency program. As well as that I have made up a little song and I often find myself singing it when I’m doing the washing and it’s about the Darwin Lock And Key Man in the work that he does.

The second goes back a long way in history to the Swan Taxi Company in Perth WA. I guess that was the rhyme that got to me and 40 or 50 or 60 years later I still remember it and from time to time burst into the jingle.

“ 3218822,

3218822,

3218822,

Beings Swan Taxis on the double to you.”

The best brand for me has been one that cost the Government of the NT plenty of money. The government wanted to up the reputation and awareness of the Territory. After some time and at considered consultancy costs, the slogan, – dressed in purple – to promote us was unveiled.

“ The Northern Territory …

BOUNDLESS POSSIBLE “

It kinda stays with you

THANK YOU DR. JIM

List the people you admire and look to for advice…

THE ONE OUTSTANDING

A 77-year-old man meets quite a few people who offer support. The standout person for me was our first Director of Education in the Northern Territory, Dr Jim Eedle.

In 1989, Dr Eedle spoke to all principals at a conference in Katherine. We were school leaders of schools that now came under the mantle of NT control he told us. We needed to set a course for the future.

His advice to us was to ALWAYS remember that “schools are for children”. To that end system structure and school organisation should always support that prime function.

I was a young principal and a still developing educator at the time. But those words and that advice remained front and centre of my thinking and actions until my retirement.

Dr Eedle has passed to his rest, but his words had an everlasting impact and helped me prioritise and retain focus on my educational perspectives.

DEBT = SURPLUS?! I DON’T GET IT

Doctor Chalmers is talking about the fact, in one of optimistic tones, of having a surplus, the first since 2007/08 when he brings down the budget this year.

I find that suggestion confusing!

How can you have a budget surplus when Australia has to find $60 million every day to service the interest on its accumulated debt. That comes in at $112 billion annually.debt on borrowings growing all the time, fuelled by an increase in interest percentages and also the ongoing borrowings governments are making to facilitate budgets.

You either have debt or you have credit. How can you say that in the short-term that you have a budget surplus when from a long-term view point (where confronted by such huge huge deficits) debt that will never be repaid.

THE COMPASS POINTS

What gives you direction in life?

I am 77 and an ageing man. One never knows how long Life will continue. I tried very hard to see the steadfast course that enables me to think and reflect and be guided positively each day. This involves thinking of others as well as myself and to think about the things that have helped get me to the point in life I have reached.

In my mind I have a Compass one on which I focus my minds eye and it points me in directions I would do well to follow that’s happened for the whole of my life. It continues to this day.

Occasionally I look at my compass in life through the rear vision mirror of my experiences and realise that I have learned a lot and that that learning is still a guide.

Direction in life for me is about thinking before acting and then looking to where I have come from to the present and to consider the future in terms of going forward.

MISSION STATEMENT

Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often?

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MISSION STATEMENT RATHER THAN A QUOTE

Rather than a quote, I have a mission statement that I’ve always used since its development as a guide to how I live and work.

In 1983 when I was principal at Nhulunbuy Primary School the largest Primary School at the time in the Northern Territory, I had the opportunity to do a tender leadership program in Darwin. It was conducted via Dr Colin Moyle.

As a part of the program, Dr Moyle asked us to develop a mission statement of 25 words or less that would stand us as a guide and a lighthouse statement to focus on directing me in future terms.

I thought about it long and hard and in the end came up with the following as a statement of mission.

“To fulfil and be fulfilled in organisational mode – family, work, and recreation.

To acquit my responsibilities with integrity.

To work with a smile in my heart.”

I tried very hard to always adhere to that principle and the precepts contained within my station from that time on. I even had a couple of photographs made which cast the statement in context. In time, I incorporated it onto the back of my business card.

It’s only changed slightly since I retired. I have substituted the word “work” with the word “live”.

“HERE” AT HOME

“HERE” IS MY FAVOURITE HOLLIDAY

Right now in 2023 “Here“ is my favourite holiday. It’s my favourite holiday because ‘here’ is home.

At one stage and with our children we did a lot of travelling. We went to Bali in 1975, spent six weeks campervaning around both islands of New Zealand at the end of 1978.

Between times and afterwards we had beautiful holidays in Tasmania, and a six weeks trip to Malaysia along with visits around Australia.

We liked travelling at the time. It was good to get away from our places of work. We always took our children with us and with them were the first Europeans to visit Sanpalan on Nusa Penida in 1976.

We always travelled on our own and very, very rarely were involved with organised tours.

As our children grew up, they tended to do their own holiday things.

Our last big trip overseas was to spend six weeks in the United Kingdom in 1996. We drove around the UK, from Cornwall to John-O- Groats in Scotland across the top down to the Isle of Skye, into Wales and so on.

I managed to do the three things in England that were on a bucket list.

The first was to slide down a banister in Harris’s London store. The second was to view a sunset to the north eastern most point from John-O-Groats in Scotland in July.

The third was to climb the security fence at Land’s End in Cornwall and climb out into the unknown as far as I could without falling off a cliff and plunging into the water.

I did all those things and have many wonderful memories of all our travels – as I said taken with our children during their formative years so they got a wonderfully wide ranging education.

Now I am old and have no more desire to go rushing through crowded airports or sat in planes where my legs are jammed up, to destinations that are so full of people that you don’t see anything.

So as I said at the beginning, my favourite holiday these days (and I have forgotten little about our past holiday destinations) Is here at home.
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.What is your favorite holiday? Why is it your favorite?

CAMPING… NO THANKS

Have you ever been camping?

CAMPING

Although these days I do not go camping, in many respects I was a professional camper, particularly in 1970 and then again in 1974/75. We were at that stage living in Warburton Ranges a very very remote community in Western Australia.

Yes, we were living in the community. But in essence we were camping. We resided in two houses (over time) attached to the school. They were more like aluminium huts. The aluminium outer and the aluminium roof had wall lining and ceiling made of Masonite. There was no air conditioning, neither were their fans.

In these houses, we froze to death in winter and or a boiling hot in summer. No, the houses were not tents but yes they were more like offering the opportunity to live in a camping mode for the housing most certainly was not conventional.

It may be for this reason the camping is camping has never really turned me on.

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Feeling Productive

When do you feel most productive?

PRODUCTIVITY

Productivity and when one feels the most productive there is according to age, station in life, occupation, and so on.

I like to reflect upon my life being productive through all of its stages and elements.

As the school principal I always felt most productive when I reached children. that involve gaining the respect and having them self motivate to do the very best at all times. For me Education was all about humanity and dealing with people; whenever that happens happened I felt good.

These days and into my retirement by over a decade, perhaps one of the things that I really like when it comes to productivity is the ability to grow pawpaws from seed and give away plants to people. I also like to grow some plants so the fruit can be picked and given away. This productivity has been going on for six or seven for six years or so and I have given away “Product“ in order of quite a few thousand dollars.

I think that some people call that being an urban farmer

DESTRUCTION AT HOWARD SPRINGS

DESTRUCTION AT HOWARD SPRINGS

Chief Minister Natasha Fyles posted thanks yesterday (30/4) to the army of volunteers supporting the flood victims from Kalkaringi, Dargaragu and Pigeon Hole at the Howard Springs (Inpex Village) centre. She also said we do not kick people when they are down – this is in response to people who had been removed from their flood-affected communities.

I certainly do not believe in kicking people while they are down. I always try to be an empathetic person when considering the situation of people who have fallen on hard times or who are distressed by circumstances.

I can assure the Chief Minister and everybody else connected with the government that my reactions to what has happened at Howard Springs are not influenced or coloured because the people at the centre were down on their luck.

Neither do I have anything other than respect for the army of volunteers who were trying to support those several hundred people. They deserve our appreciation and certainly have mine.

It is true to say that I feel for the volunteers because many of them have had to put up with a situation of supporting and helping people, not all of whom were appreciative of their accommodation, meals, and cleaning that was done to keep them. Various other tasks aimed to make the stay of those at the centre, albeit in accommodation not their own, as pleasant as possible.

I also appreciate that not everybody at Howard Springs was connected with the extensive damage. Some of that would have happened during social altercations between people and possibly as a consequence of alcohol.

However, the centre has been extensively damaged. To suggest the damage was normal wear and tear or occasioned by the loneliness people felt for being away from their communities is an extravagance. What happened at Howard Springs is simply an extension of the chaos happening around the Northern Territory and brought to this location.

There needs to be a complete account, made public, of the damage and the destruction that has occurred at the Howard Springs Centre.

No, it’s not a case of kicking people while they are down but rather of attributing terrible damage to those who caused it while being looked after and provided with everything that would make life comfortable.

I ask the question. If those at the centre had not been remotely living first Australians, would they have been esxcused because of what happened at Howard Springs?